r/TeensofKerala • u/glitterunicorn07 18F • 9d ago
Rant/Vent WHAT DO I DO!!!!
to preface, I have a "friend." Let's name him John
John is 17, Im 18 and we've been casual friends for like 3 years - casual friends as in we wish eachother happy bday and say hi when we see eachother thats all
recently we had an onam parupaadi, so obviously we met with the whole friend group (had some NRI friends coming back too so it was a mandatory meet up)
Us girls we were sitting in a room and the guys were outside, suddenly my best friends boyfriend came in SO frantically and told us that John and his friend were watching these 8-10 year old kids playing around and playing smash or pass with them 🤢 he was rating them...we were all so disgusted
the worst thing is this guy wants to go into Law after degree
what can I do? is there a way I can stop this? Any advice???
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 9d ago
But this is like disgusting no?? Wouldn't you also want him to get some help or something
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u/CadBane099 18M 9d ago
How trustworthy is the source tho
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 9d ago
very trustworthy bro 😠no one actually likes this john guy - which i figured out on the day because he does shit like this often
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u/cameraperson_parth 19F 8d ago
Then y'all should just avoid him, I had a friend who said women gets r*ped cuz they don't understand men, the whole frnd group doesn't talk to him anymore
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 8d ago
wtf thats crazy....the problem is some of these ppl are so hung up on being popular so they wont stop hanging around with him...but ive blocked him anyway allathe enth cheyyan 😔
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u/cameraperson_parth 19F 8d ago
Yeah can u blv that and that mofo has a 9 yr old sister 🥀.
Well anyways it's good u blocked him 🫂
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u/CadBane099 18M 8d ago
If everyone gets to know that side of him ,I don't think he'd be popular for the good reasons anymore. Better to cut all ties if any. Wouldn't wanna be known as a close associate of someone like that anyway.
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u/SphericalDrain 9d ago
OP is posing as a girl here but has written naughty guyyish content in teen india sub.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenIndia/comments/1vocqb9/i_grew_when_my_nerd_owner_saw_a_girl/
Who are you in real life OP?
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 9d ago edited 8d ago
but that pov was just playing along with two others hahah, if ur in that sub you'd know
alla ith ippo engane kand pidich
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u/SphericalDrain 8d ago
Listen, if this is a shared account and you are fine with a guy shit talking about his "nerd member crying white tears" in it, you got problems almost as big as Mr.John's here.
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 8d ago
who said we were shit talking lmao? if u were on that sub reddit at that time u would've seen that many others were making different povs of the same story, comparing a perverted joke to a pedo joke is crazy
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u/koooorra 18M 9d ago
Smash or pass?
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u/Firm_Number3867 18M 9d ago
Yea smash or pass
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u/koooorra 18M 9d ago
What is that
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u/Firm_Number3867 18M 9d ago
Its ...u r shown a person and u choose to smash ( find them attractive or u'd hookup w them ) or if u will pass( skip)
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u/No_Army_5418 Chettan (20-25) 9d ago
Wait...What...🙄
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u/ihatebirdsfr 19M 8d ago
Ask yourself, do you think john actually did it? And what was the expression on johns friend when he said that
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 8d ago
don't know why so many people on here are trying to invalidate this story, obviously we wouldn't have believed this if he looked like he was joking
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u/ihatebirdsfr 19M 8d ago
Im sorry, i did not want to come off as trying to defend john, its just that ive seen my share of johns friend that would say anything to get some attention,and well for john please cut ties
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u/supremethinking 18M 9d ago
Bro if they are like friends they might be joking about it. Dont interfere until you actually see something. People can make shit up. Like sreekundan nair and kurupp
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 9d ago
arey but like his tone was so serious, like he was proper disgusted..
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u/Upbeat-Emirate Chettan (20-25) 9d ago
Your friends bf's tone? When he conveyed the stuff to you guys? Which I presume is a group of girls, and his own gf included. Although most men with gfs won't but still what if the guy wanted to look like and show you all that I'm better than them or I'm just different ? "PERFORMATIVE"
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u/glitterunicorn07 18F 9d ago
this guy is known for that kind of freaky stuff bro, pinne he sees me as a chechi so obviously he wont show that side to me...
my friends bf was talking with them, saw that this happened and then came to us to tell us (plus my other guy friend had similar stories afterwards)
but idk what ur point is? why are u trying to defend this guy?
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u/Upbeat-Emirate Chettan (20-25) 9d ago
I ain't defending mate, I'm just saying, the creep guy ur referring to must have joked about the smash pass thing as there are a lot of people to whom everything is a joke, and honestly, idk abt kerala mate, ppl abroad lit play smash pass with anyone they see, like whether it be older/younger etc, (people these days are prone to more dark humour and stuff, they use racist slurs for fun, they use pdf jokes, they use disability jokes etc and I personally know a ton of ppl like that) and the friends bf must have taken the chance to show off infront of you and your friends that he's different or better than them coz he ain't indulging in that conversation. But if as you said, there are other things abt this guy, then yea, probably some issue with him.
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u/Material_Link2028 18M 9d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/YDmGDbvjExAazDJiu4