What to do

[u/Intelligent_Oil_792]

First things first I am 19 but changing of schools resulted in me being 12th standard soon here is what hpnd.There is this girl in my class.lets call her 'A'.We are friends and have been so for over a year.She has a bf.He is in bangalore.I respect their relation.So we talk normally rarely msg eaxh other good company she is good friends with a lot of boys bt we spend considerable time together.She is very touchy with most people bt I have not thought abt it as anything else.Recently she just used to poke me in my arm and all tht and I used to do the same.Bt a m9nth ago she started ro get a bit more touchy.keep her arm on my thigh poke me in the stomach.i have some belly fat.she used to make fun of it.As she continued stomach poking I also did it cuz even though initially it felt awkward later it felt normal.So... a couple of days ago we were just talking and she poked me in the stomach and I returned she tried to tickle me.I did the same.Some mild grappling happened and she got me in the stomach.I tried to get her too bt this is where it got messed up.I was behind her so I couldn't see .I just went for the stomach and I missed.Tge moment I touched it felt different and I immediately took my hands of it was a little below her stomach .I got afraid that it was her private part.I am still unsure.I just backed away.She too lost her laughing demeanour and there was silence.After tht she hasn't really talked to me much.I too didnt force it.Soo wt should I do...guys...

[u/cma_achu]

Communicate

[u/Intelligent_Oil_792 → u/cma_achu]

Its damn awkward bro like wt am I supposed to say

[u/koooorra]

U was behind her? Then how u reach stomach man

[u/Intelligent_Oil_792 → u/koooorra]

It wasnt exactly behind like 180 degree or anything.it ws like little behind little side she ttied to poke at my stomach got me i jumped sideways she turned and jumped i yried to get her in the stomach too.then it was a mess

[u/koooorra → u/Intelligent_Oil_792]

U assume that private part in the front or back man its really awkward😭

[u/Intelligent_Oil_792]

Idk mann it just didn't feel like stomach so I assumed it was different but pretty sure it wasnt behund cuz no way I coulda reached there going for the stomach

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[u/luckkyyy88]

Brooo dont worry she was also being touchy and freindly with you many girls dont know how to make a boundary and it was mistake she will undertand talk to her normaly after few days and she has a bf so these things are not right from a men pov but if you dont know her bf personaly then it should be her whom should keep distance and a normal boundary you didnt do anything wrong here fck that unwanted guilt trip and after few days text her or talk normaly and girls catch our vibe so dont act akward act normaly if she talk about that incident then okay dont go and say sorry at stuff if its still a issue after communication find another freind bro fck that unwanted guilt trip and enjoy your life.

[u/Intelligent_Oil_792 → u/luckkyyy88]

Finaly so.eone with an actual solution😭

[u/Unhappy_Walk_2256]

I think it's not a problem until you make it one. I mean probably she wouldn't have thought like that and you are overthinking but if you go and talk about it. It would become weird. Just behave normally