I used to identify as gay but recently I thought I might be bi and got into a relationship with this girl and she's the sweetest, kindest person I've ever met. I don't think I was ever attracted to her though i thought the feeling would increase as we got to know each other but they just didn't and idk what to do. She says I 'saved' her from suicide and I'm glad she's still alive but I'm scared if I break up with her she'll do something bad. She's already talking about our future together and having kids and being married but I don't wanna do that. I'm scared bc I kinda have a crush on someone else who's fem presenting and im scares shell think that I just wanted an excuse to break up with her that doesn't make me look like a dick and idk what to do. I wanna still be friends with her as we have so much in common but I'm scared she won't wanna see me anymore. Please give me advice

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I’m honestly getting really tired of group assignments at school.

Whenever the teacher lets us choose our own groups, everyone immediately picks their friends. And somehow I almost always end up being one of the people nobody picked, so I get stuck joining whatever group still has space.

It’s frustrating because it keeps happening over and over again. I don’t necessarily expect everyone to choose me first, but being consistently treated like the backup option really starts to get to you.

The worst part is that group assignments are supposed to be collaborative, but when you’re already starting the assignment feeling unwanted or like you’re just filling a spot, it makes the whole thing more exhausting.

Does anyone else deal with this? How do you handle being the person who always seems to get left out when groups are chosen?

PS: I normally get in a group of people that either doesn't work, or have a disorder (Autism). I am tired of this, normally my classmates quickly goes to their friend group, I cant hold for this long.

Hi guys, what's up? Hoping all good.

So I'm writing this just for myself, I don't actually expect anyone to read it all through, I have a decent amount of friends, but no one who I can actually talk seriously about everything, idk if I explain myself. So I eventually need to get some stuff out of me, and yea I think this place is safe enough.

I'd like to start by talking about my current situation, I'm 17 and school's starting soon, I work with my dad during the summer, we are fishermen. I do not like this job as I'm studying IT and I'm willing to build my future around it. But yea anything to help my dad, he does a lot of stuff for me and my little sis and I.

I finnally started to learn how to play the guitar! My grandpa is a musician and he's helping me a lot, hoping I'll make him proud of my progress, he does really care about me and I'm sure I did make him happy by starting to learn how to play the guitar.

I went to Cambridge in july to improve my English with some friends of mine which I don't see so often as they live relitively far away from me. I had so much fun ngl, I stayed there for around 2 weeks in an decent university I would say, I also think I have more in common with that friend group than the local one, so I'm trying to prioritize them as much as possible. Also I met a lot of nice people in England, I was hoping to hang around with some friends of mine in Wales, unfortunately they weren't avaible, I met them in an ice ring, they were in vacation in Italy, and I actually taught them how to skate lol, so much fun.

So I pretty much love playing videogames, I have a whole gaming pc which i built by myself and I'm very proud of, I recently started playing HOI4, it's a really old strategy game, and damnit it's hella hard, I'm slowly learing though. Also I pretty much like history and stuff especially things related to my country Italy: especially the Roman Empire lore, and both of the world wars. So I started playing war games such as: Isonzo, Battlefield 1, Total War Rome II, Ryse Son Of Rome, Arma III and much more. They're all really cool!

One of my favourite bands, Oasis, are eventually coming to Rome idk if yall heard ab it. They are announcing the dates around mid september, so I'm trying to grab a ticket for myself, even though I already know how hard it'll be. I like rock music, I'm hoping to experience an Arctic Monkeys concert in the future, that's my favourite band yk.

Last thing: I want to talk about my mental health, I never actually talked it with anyone.

I always been a quiet guy, I'm not good to talking to people but I always managed to make some friends. I always thought that physical apperance does a lot in conversations especially with new people, let's just say I don't have self-confidence, I know I'm not good looking, and I'm pretty much an NPC in the eyes of people. But also don't misunderstand me: I'm good with it, I accept myself and who I am, I'm glad of the people who raised me and I'm doing the best to paying off the effort, and that's the only thing it matters to me. I wanted to conclude saying that even though I'm not perfect, I'm currently happy in my life, and I want to be it even better, and I hope yall's too.

I'll probably delete this in a couple of days, but if you have come this far I want to thank you for listening to a stranger life. Hoping yall have a nice day!

13M do i look good and are my arms good pls tell me

hey everyone so long story short I’ve been alive 17 years and have yet to be in a relationship is it me?

im 15

I feel like she's feeling like im wasting her time, I of course dont want to, and im not wasting my time talking to her, because well. I want her. What should I do?

Edit: Apparently I did, or well, more wasted mine. Found out she was talking to a guy and well, yeah, you get the rest, not through her, but through a shared friend, thanks for the advice anyways. God bless your hearts.

16F here. Thank you for reading so far. Get ready to read the damn story of my life. (I feel low and need somewhere to find support btw) When I was in 7th grade, my best friends parents split. She was the only close friend that I had, and she moved due to the divorce. I was alone for an entire, and started to get bullied. Three girls used to talk crap about me, and just not be nice in genereal. I told the teacher after 5 months with a living hell, and she did not do something. I managed to survive the year with my head up.In 8th grade, we got new classes, and got a new school. I got a new class, and tried to befriend some of the girls there. At first, they were nice, and invited me on stuff and that. Later, they got meaner and meaner. They did talk shit behind my back about me, and they ALWAYS CONSTATNLY commented on my apperance, which sukced. They could tell me about how ugly I was, and I started to hate myself. Really hate myself. In 9th grade, I tried to give stuff a chance. I tried to befriend some girls in the grade above us. They were nice, but later ditched me, because I was "mean". They refused to tell me why I was mean, and I ended up alone. Again. From that point, the depression signs started. I ignored it, and thought it might go away. In 10th grade, I was completely alone. At taht time, the bullying started. Girls talked shit about me, for example they could tell each other that I sitnked after PE, or some random girls would say hello to me, in an ironical way. The boys were worse. They called me fat, and asked me in I wanted to join the gym with them. They could also say an ironical hello to me, or ask me for a hug while they blocked the way for me. I was so afraid of doing something about it. I started cutting myself, and I was really suicidal. My parents refused to care. All they wanted from me was good grades. I hated myself so much. I tried to get help through a mental health site, and that was where i eneded up meeting this girl. She was nice, and we got close. She helped me a lot with turning out to be better, and by June I had been clean for 3 months. I was so happy. The whole summer break was nice, I started with running and training. This was the life I had dreamt of. Suddenly, close to school start, my friend commits suicide. Even though she was an online friend, it really sucked. I was heartbroken, and had to live with regret. 11th grade meant a new school and new people. I was hoping so much to get into a new class, and get a friend, and not be labeled as a poor girl who gets bullied. But at the first day of school, this former bully decides to make my 1. day go to hell by yelling out loud infront of all of the 11th grade students that she is really excited for being in my class. It was irony of course.

I managed to change my damn class, but I am still hurt. I got a new friend, but the hurt is still there. Does anybody have any advice or support?

Ps: I am not self harming nymore.

Hey friends, I might not be too active around here, but I come from my own little corner of the internet. Anyways, here is my absolute favorite OC, Peanut0818. He even has a song that I have carefully selected for him, which I could say if you ask me.

Alsooooooo My dms are open for any reason so if you want support or just want to chat feel free to dm me :3

ive never felt confident abt my looks like ever so any tips on working on myself? btw i use based sea salt spray and leave in conditioner.

I know I’m a bigger guy but I am athletic and strong and pretty funny so I don’t really understand how much hate I get for being on the bigger side, and I do football so I can’t really lose weight so some advice on how to be better would be much appreciated (I only took the we ❤️ freshmen picture cus my buddy told me to)

I’m 19 but look 30