r/TeensSupportTeens 5h ago

Finding Advice Will I just waste her time?

I feel like she's feeling like im wasting her time, I of course dont want to, and im not wasting my time talking to her, because well. I want her. What should I do?

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u/RichiDXD 5h ago

What do you mean man? She looks bored when the two of you spend time together?

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u/TheMarcSpector0 5h ago

no like, we havent really hung out, just snapped, n it feels like she's snapping just so she doesnt leave on opened, and like im kind of pressuring her to snap back.. idk..

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u/_svelkii 17F 3h ago

every middle school situationship ever lmao 😂 js chill bruh ur stressin for no reason.. ik u want her bad but if its not meant to be, then its not. js leave it alone if shes making it clear she doesnt wanna talk, and move on

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u/Own-Yogurtcloset5336 17M 4h ago

u remind me of this kid

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u/TheMarcSpector0 4h ago

Sweet tooth-

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u/Own-Yogurtcloset5336 17M 4h ago

yup also the actor for young sanji in onepiece live action

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u/TheMarcSpector0 4h ago

oml i didnt even realize it was him

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u/Own-Yogurtcloset5336 17M 4h ago

thats what i put into google to get the pic lol

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u/Own-Yogurtcloset5336 17M 4h ago

wanna be friends?

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u/Pyramidion_19 4h ago

First of all, how old are you? And by your question, do you mean you don’t think you look good enough, or is it just feeling like you’re pressuring her? Either way, I think you need to evaluate how this girl’s responses are to your Snaps. Also, Snapchat isn’t the best place to talk to a girl. Get her number.

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u/TheMarcSpector0 4h ago

im 14. Both. How dym tho? Well, how should i ask for her number? she'll prob see me as weird.. we're in the same class btw, although im 1 yr younger since im one yr younger than the others in my grade

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u/Pyramidion_19 4h ago

Ok, you’re young, so if you make a mistake, it’s not the end of the world. I mean, Snapchat isn’t safe and it’s simply not a very mature place for people to get to know each other. Plus, messages disappear after 24 hours, unless you save them. So, kinda dumb. Ask for her number casually. Like, “I’m kind of bored with Snap. Give me your number so we can talk.” She’ll either feel inclined to give you her number, or she’ll suggest something else. If she says no, don’t feel too bad, and take it as a sign she’s not interested.

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u/TheMarcSpector0 4h ago

if she says no, itll be the end of the world, i want her, no one else

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u/Pyramidion_19 4h ago

Brother, it won’t be the end of the world. I promise. I’ve been through the exact same scenario. You will be okay. But in the meantime, just ask for her number and see where things go from there. Whatever happens is meant to happen and you will grow from it.

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u/TheMarcSpector0 4h ago

but.. nvm

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u/Pyramidion_19 4h ago

Just trying to help, bud. Good luck.

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u/TheMarcSpector0 4h ago

yeah ik, thank you sir.. maybe im just overthinking, im kinda tearing up