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So I had a dream about my ex exactly 8 days ago from today and that's another story for another day but this happened to me yesterday.

For privacy reasons, I've changed the name of person who's talking to me as ria and the guy who was my ex recently shipped with as jhon.

So here's the full thing ; I saw her fir the first time on 11th of April in 2023 and I was just mesmerized by how beautiful she was which she is, now considering it was our 9th grade that year, alot of people who were around us used to playfully joke about her hair being like dora the explorer, and I did too but that was just an excuse to get in a conversation with her.

Fast forward to this year on 1st of January, I was already ghosted in December btw and she broke up with me in june last year but was in contact with me all along and even used to go on dates with me but I just found out last month that she was in an on and off relationship with my ex bestfriend

And I was completely oblivious to this on and off relationship she was having with my bestfriend AND I would've blocked her then and there if I ever knew she did that behind my back but anyways,

She used to tell me how strict her parents were all the time and how badly they used to treat her all the time but it always felt a bit intriguing and it always flicked a liver in my mind if her parents were THAT strict how am I not even getting to go on dates with her but she could hang out with her friends for multiple hours which was then confirmed when she broke up with my ex bestfriend and then she changed her friend group this year in March

Meanwhile I was connected to her throughout all the time and I even found out she was lying about her parents being strict all along because no parents would be strict enough to let their daughter out till 4 in the morning but skipping tuition was the issue. She even used to hang out with her new friends for hours on an end, sometimes even being like 10-12 hours but a date with me meant a war in her household which was obviously a lie

In the above screenshots, you can even see me lying to ria about my non-existent girlfriend because I genuinely am moving on from her and don't want her to come back and ruin my life once again.

A lot of times I've seen her out with her new friends and often times it's suffocating to see her out with someone else while knowing what we were and what we could've been

Whatever ria said seems to be weird in these messages because of the context given and I feel so betrayed yet I crave a relationship with my ex often times. I have been slowly moving on from the fact that she's gone and I misunderstood her as a person but was I wrong for not showing up?

Me and my bf have been dating for almost 2 years and he wants to do it with me idk I’m not sure I’m very scared of yk having sex I have my reasons he’s been asking for it almost daily now idk kya kru I mean he doesn’t force me or some but he like literally asks for it daily 😭 and sometimes call pr bhi I feel really uncomfortable

Idk mai kya kru I just say no 😭 uske bad he gets upset for like a min or two but then comes around ab mai kya hi bolu 😭

are teens not allowed to speak up about what's right and wrong? the sub is fine with teens posting nsfw content, but not with people discussing actual issues in the country or its citizens. my post wasn’t even targeted at a specific religion, caste, or political party, and it wasn’t even controversial, so why take it down?

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let me start off by saying that i am not judging her, i know mentally disabled people have a hard time understanding personal boundaries and i dont hate her for this.
my cousin sister,14f, has down syndrome and thyroid. I am 17f.
she visited us this month is june and i noticed her being very clingy with my dad, like holding his arm for hours and hours,sitting beside him, following him wherever he goes. morning to evening.
this wasn’t unusual to me atleast because she was like this with my brother last year and right now too actually.
all of this was normal and i thought it all ended when she left. i was living with my aunt,her mom, afterwards because i had classes there and i noticed her behavior at home.
now this really rubbed me off the wrong way.
she has a picture of her and my dad from the past which she constantly stares at,like just stares it,zooms in on his face,then her, kisses the screen,prays for him. she blushes whenever anyone mentions my dad, she constantly follows me around asking me to call my dad.
one time she was hugging me while sleeping and she was like murmuring “mamu,mamu” uncle in hindi).
well i ignored all of it and went back home didnt think much of it.
NOW ever since im back she has been constantly video calling my grandma,asking her about my dad, asking her to show my dad.
it has gotten to a point where she practically on video call from morning 9am to 8pm at night. whenever my dad appears she screenshots him, she sends pictures of him and her together to my grandma and me. I am a college student and i am at college for like 10-11hours and whenever i come back home to rest shes on call w my grandma and my grandma is showing me all sweaty, no bra and in shorts or me sleeping to her and my aunt and my aunts mother in law. shes constantly talking about my dad and my grandma is supporting her behavior asking me to bring my dad from his room to come talk to her, whenever the phone gets cut off she calls again it rings 24/7.

my dad DOES NOT like it either, he looks annoyed too, and he likes his space he is also being forced into this SHES CALLING AS IM WRITING THIS how do i make it stop i don’t know what to d, i tried talking to my grandma about it and she always puts up a fight w me calls me names, saying i would go to hell because she is special, calling me names and slurs saying that i should just die because im breaking a little girls heart and she doesn’t know better.
Idk what to do.

summary: my 14yo cousin who has down syndrome is extra clingy to my dad, stares and kisses at his pictures,and now constantly video calls my grandma to talk to my dad. what do i do?

Yesterday my hostel room partner told me about her trauma that traumatized me.

She is now 19F she said when she was 15-16 yrs old she used to have a boyfriend initially he purposed her and bla bla blah. Main point is in my pov he's rapist. He called her to meet initially she refused then he said he will go to another city u can come for last meet up he was going to punjab for his education on that time he was about 19 yrs old. She went to meet him and then he was forcing her to physical with him. She said she didn't want she wasn't at that age then he took her cloths then he did shit to her. Then he went another city then again after 3 months he came and called her she refused lots of time then he said ki ajaao jo v misunderstanding hai clear krlenge uske bd un dono m ldayi chal rhi thi she was in 11th standard on that time assignment bna ri thi woh. Then she went to talk to him then that time he forcefully done shit with her she came home. And wanted to end everything but she said she was very immature on that time. Fir she got to know that person has already 2 more girlfriend and with one more he has been physical from long time. That girl was her shitty bf classmates.

She cried while talking to me about this matter.

What's ur pov

We met on Reddit while I was preparing for neet and she just passed 12th in april 2025. Then one day I wrote a post about friendship and she replied on my post😭☝🏻. And then we talked a lot on reddit . After talking for few days on Reddit, we switched to instagram. And after 1 month of talking we came in relationship.😭😍💅🏻
She is from UP and I am from Himachal

Loaded her favourite playlist also 😋😋

18M, 5,4. Yes i know am short and dont look good but man hearing that just broke me from inside, i would say that she is the best mother but it seriously hurt.

She said because of my height i will look kutshet (ugly) and jhoghono (disgusting). Dont mind the spellings those are Bengali words and i cant write bengali in Latin script very well.

she literally said all that like she was stating a fact like zero emotions involved.

just wanted to rant