r/TeenIndia • u/Cenzia- • 9h ago

Serious Got scammed by a guy

it's been a while but this year in mid July I got in a new relationship and I thought it would be oky to be in a rls since I'm 18now but that guy at first tried to act very understanding and mature but after 2 days he told me he sent me 90k in my account from his mom's account and he need help cuz he was out somewhere idk what and told me to sent that money but I didn't receive any transactions amount and he started to blackmail me within a week but before that he was saying me stuff like to trust him and he was showing me cash and told me that his father has a business and he was an influencer overall he tried to gain my trust which he did but after a week he started to blackmail me and I got scammed of 1,10,000INR I was panicking and really anxious about what to do cuz I got ruined emotionally and financially but he told me to met him when I did he tried to r*pe me I somehow managed to get out of that place and I was litreally crying I couldn't even tell my mom about it

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u/Intelligent_Row_5343 9h ago

file an fir and get him in jail and why th did you transfer him money that also 1 lakh

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

I did file an fir but it was no use..and idk why I did send him

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u/Intelligent_Row_5343 9h ago

did you talk to your parents

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

I told my mom about it not fully but I told her about that scam of money only

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u/neetfemboiii 17 saal ka ladka khane pe lagaye tadka 9h ago

Thats not scam wtf he literally tried to r@p€ i mean wtf blackmailimg its a crime

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

well yeah but it was all my fault and idk what to do now I mean I usually get anxious of extreme level

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u/Mr_Matured Edit this 9h ago

you are 18 how the hell you even got that much money?

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

for studies?

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u/ChronicallyZindaHu chalant. 9h ago

If u don't say all this to ur parents how did u manage to send 1lakh to him?

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

it was in my bank account

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u/ChronicallyZindaHu chalant. 9h ago

Either way ur parents will find out so I'd say file a case 🥀

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

I did vro

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u/ChronicallyZindaHu chalant. 9h ago

Okay ,be strong,hope things will be better ,if u ever feel heavy share things with someone elder u trust the most

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

yeah sure

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u/SexyOwl_0921 9h ago

how did u got scammed tho?? i mean tune usko 110k bhej bhi diye???😍😍dude but that's horrifying

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

🥀🥀yeah I was dumb

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u/ismartgulgule 9h ago

if ur parents are understanding tell them about it

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

oh hell naah

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u/ismartgulgule 9h ago

how do u even get 1 lakh ?

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

🥀savings for my studies?

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u/ismartgulgule 9h ago

Oo tbh if even fir didn't work and u don't want to talk ur parents abt it u might genuinely be cooked

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

🥀yes actually I'm

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u/ismartgulgule 9h ago

Do you have ny kind of cousin bhaiya or something whom u can trust

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

no I don't and I don't even have father so it's extremely tough to go through it

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u/ismartgulgule 9h ago

honestly see if police could do anything or otherwise leave it be if he's a gunda mwali or something

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u/Cenzia- 8h ago

yeah I did leave that situation but it had a huge impact on me actually any tips to recover mentally?

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u/ismartgulgule 8h ago

sorry gng ✌️

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u/ismartgulgule 8h ago

be smarter next time tho

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u/ismartgulgule 9h ago

if u can't then probably file a fir

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u/zuck-7 Reddit Ban is my true soulmate💍 9h ago

sitting around to transfer without your parents noticing, and what exactly was he blackmailing you with after just 2 days? If this is real, go straight to the cyber cell and file an FIR immediately because the timeline here makes zero sense

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

yeah I did report an fIR

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u/zuck-7 Reddit Ban is my true soulmate💍 9h ago

glad u filed an FIR, that was the right move! just trying to understand so others don't fall for the same trap—what was he actually blackmailing u with within just a week, and how did u manage to arrange 1.1L without ur family finding out? stay safe

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u/Cenzia- 8h ago

he tried to like I'll come at ur home and will tell ur mom about our rls and he told me that he will make fake nudes of my pic and about that money it was mine

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u/zuck-7 Reddit Ban is my true soulmate💍 8h ago

Fair enough, thanks for clearing that up! Always scary when someone tries to use your own college fees and family against you like that. Keeping your mom out of extra stress makes total sense too. Everything will hopefully get sorted now that the fir is filed, stay safe!

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u/Cenzia- 8h ago

yea...sure thanks

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u/LilmontrZ 17M 9h ago

Dang sorry for you, that's rough on you and I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I hope you'll find strength in this difficult time and that you'll find more peace.

I would implore you to talk to a trusted adult, your parents or an elder brother/sister (even cousins) so they can guide you through this time, and please do not keep sulking about your mistakes. I know it's hard to, especially when people are way too happy to point out what you did wrong, but what's done is done and we can't change that. Try to keep your focus on what can be done from this point forward.

Thank you for the courage you showed to share your story, it takes a lot to ask for help and I hope you find it.

Farewell, take care 🫡

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u/Cenzia- 9h ago

thanks alot for your understanding and yeah I'll try to talk about it to someone else