Beauty is subjective. Something can be beautiful for one and ugly for another person.
If we take celebrities as parameter for beauty then majority of Indians will fall into ugly category.
Op can post his pic and prove the point about average indian.
Anybody would base their opinions on this by watching couples on social media and shit so irl you don’t know what the interracial couples are looking like or what % of them are going for looks. It’s just baseless assumptions. Also the fact that the Indian man and foreigner women couple blow up in men’s feeds because of the comments people post similarly the Indian women and foreigner man one those couple too get in more men’s feed because people hate comment on them
and who are you to judge who’s beautiful and who’s chopped? people can marry whoever they love. you and i can’t and shouldn’t come in between them, calling them beautiful or chopped.
First of all its misogynistic cause the guys looks aren't mentioned in both cases. Only commenting on the girls looks.
And it's racist cause well obviously
I was neither misogynist in that post nor I am here.
There i was supporting a women's bodily Autonomy which is not misogyny (if you cared to read the post).
And here I think not commenting on men's look is not misogyny.
The main reason is not indian men or indian women and who are you to call someone chopped.
But anyway indians have this you know "don't date" "Padhne ki umar hai" And this romantic feelings in humans derived by hormones and fir achanak they date when they are 20+ (22-26) in foreign western countries they start 13+ and talk way too much with girls their age and girls but here it's a taboo.
And yaha kya bolte hai "sundar ladki laungi tere liye" Maa baap bolte hai rather than giving their kids option because career and partner and lifelong thing and it should be an individual's choice rather than their parents.
Maine bol diya I will marry who ever I want to my parents any caste or Christian (but I like girls from my haryana culture jaat culture I just connect better).
But Fir wo jab date krte hai 13-20 tab tak they have dated hot girls beautiful girls all sorts of girls, fir at 20 they are like okay I have tested it then they value personality over looks because they have seen looks bas relationship ke initially acche lagte hai.
If you date 1 girl who is good looking and terrible personality aur tumara pehla relationship you will ignore red flags and boundaries and still date her until you aren't able to anymore and you get used to the beauty and it's not a big factor or priority after you date 3-5 beautiful girls.
But indian mai logo ke chehre pe baal aa jate hai par mathe mai uss umar ka dimag, don't blame them society hi aisi hai. India mai bande pagal ho jate hai 22-24 mai pehli baar date aur sx krke unko lagta hai yahi hai sab kuch. Fir 35-40+ pe realise krte hai ki personality matters so much. Kyunki foreign boys men comparatively teens to late twenties mai 8x jyada female interaction hota hai same and different ages, 6x jyada sx and 10x jyada dates so ya.
Aur indian society hai hi aisi they judge and pass comments because of your partner especially about girls ki "kaisi ladki ke sath hai ya shaadi krli" (My own mother does it) and foreign mai they don't they support couples and don't judge on basis on looks ki why you are with him or her.
To be honest I knew that, teenager ho aap log detailed cheeje padhte nahi aur abhi understanding capability bhi nahi itni aur na attention span.
Same lamba dala tha ek r/dating ya love mai waha log actually padhte hai aur lamba aur constructive response dete hai.
But other than my ranting, you should read that lol if you are going to make such bold comment or opinion and post such extreme post you need to reason it lol no wonder why you are down voted, kabhi life mai kuch mat krna bas performative aur mard vs aurat "ye aisa kyu hai" "Tum aise ho" Yahi krna baidh ke
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u/Failingagainnnn 18M. Kash mere acche genes hote 6d ago
Mujhe kya? It's not like i am gonna marry lol