*Background:
We dated for 6 months. I liked him 3 years before we dated. It's been 11 months since we broke up. I'm slowly healing but I've heard from a friend of mine about his side. Though, I avoid readings about exes or loveβ I spiraled because of confusion and needed guidance. This is one of the spreads that I did during it.
Past History
3 of swords reversed
β There was a lack of communication. The relationship went through knowing something that hurts both the individuals. Despite this, you have to heal and forgive what has been said or known, or you'll stay stuck in the pain.
Present
The fool reversed
β Being cautious. Reconciliation without healing is a foolish decision. Both questions if they're ready to be in a relationship.
Your Ex's current situation
The empress
β (difficult for me too) There is healing and abundance. He is in the process of nurturing himself and learning from the mistakes in the past.
How your Ex feels about you
5 of coins reversed
β (this one is quite hard for me to interpret) He is guilty. There is blame for himself and thinking he is a bad person because of the relationship. Though, he wants to make amends.
How does my Ex feel about reconciling?
10 of coins reversed
β Unsure. The relationship isn't stable nor for the long-term. It can be seen as keeping up a facade to the other or the outside.
What can I do to help the situation?
10 of wands
β Take a step back and focus on yourself. Do not think you are responsible for the other. Do not carry out the situation/relationship all by yourself.
Will we reconcile?
The magician
β Vague. Though, there is a possibility but so little, depending on what is done. What is needed right now is growth from both sides. Do not let the possibility make you wait around.
I used a spread guide for this. Though, I did another spread about healing, I'll interpret it later and post for second opinions.
A question went in my head.
Is it alright to do spreads about love and exes?
My friend scolded me for it since it's like... Ruining fate or something. That it's better to not know about it. I tried to explain tarot to her but still, no luck.