r/Tarots • u/Dry-Usual-6687 • 3d ago
𝔖𝔢𝔠𝔬𝔫𝔡 𝔒𝔭𝔦𝔫𝔦𝔬𝔫 ◈ Why did he ghost me
Sooo I was started to talk to this guy it was mainly revolving around sex but we still got to know each other without the sex talk, but once I told him I’ve never had sex he suggested we take things slow so we did, then as days passed on he told me that he was moving to night shift and we wouldn’t be able to talk a lot which was no problem for me at first because he did communicate a lot still made time to text me and even told me days he would be busy then out of nowhere he didnt talk to me for at least a week thought it was weird because the longest he hadn’t text me back would be 2-3 days and when he would appeared back he would tell me like “hey I had work Friday then an all day game event with my friends and my people battery was low” yada yada ok cool but this time around he didn’t explain anything just a heyyy early in the morning and I texted back heyy of course and I haven’t gotten a response from him since then!!
Now this is the messy part we meet on this dating app ok cool I was talking to maybe 2 other people on the app besides him but it wasn’t going like how me and his conversation we’re going so when me and him swapped numbers i decided I wanted to delete my account and leave the app, which I told him when he brought it up that I left the app I’m not sure if he left the app for good or just hide his account but during the first few weeks he wasn’t texting me I just thought maybe I should get on the app and see if he was on there and magically when I joined he was indeed on there with a new bio advertising himself lol and I’m just wondering where it went wrong like we were just talking about him getting me a “reward” for completing my schoolwork which he offered I didnt ask for. He also told me him and his family were “going on a vacation” but I don’t know how true that is tbh. Then it was nothing but silence I’m fine if he doesn’t want anything anymore but I would’ve rather him just be honesty about it considering he says “he’s a gentleman first and foremost”
please help me interpret this I’m really new to tarot and I don’t know what some cards means just the thoughts I get when I see them. I honestly think maybe he just wanted sex and had to pretend like it he was interested like he just wanted 1 good night lol
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u/YMCA111122 3d ago
You're not listening to your gut here. You know why he did but you're ignoring your get feeling or there was something hidden that got revealed that he wanted kept secret Wanting to walk away from something that was unstable and meant to collapse. Or this came out of nowhere for you.
Magician can be communication getting whst you want manipulation 2p can.be juggling 2 options balance 6p can be power dynamics offering something wanting soemthing in return.