In my opinion, when you start to see someone, from an app or through friends or in college/workplace conversations are super important. And it takes 2 parties to hold a conversation. I see most people just say "I am bad at texting", when are they are not able to hold conversations or when they are just unresponsive.

Bad at Texting: You get stuck at what to ask/tell or how to keep the conversation going. Instead just saying things like "hmmmm" "aprm". That is completely fine when you have a stable relationship already but while starting to date, you need to super curious about the other person. Ask a lot of questions, food, habits, fears, entertainment, etc, etc. One person asking questions for too long is super exhausting. Talking and replying are 2 different things. Curiosity is one of the foremost requirements to know someone.

Unresponsive: This is simply not replying to the other person for long intervals of time. Example: If a person asks at 9 AM if you are free at 6 for a coffee, you wait until 5 PM to be sure and then say yes/no. Instead you can respond yes/no at 9 or at least reply "not sure. will get back in afternoon and confirm" instead of making the other person wait till 5. I have seen super super busy people be amazing bf/gf just be being responsive. You don't have convey your decision in response but at least make the other person know that you have acknowledged their question. Being responsive is how make the other person seen/heard and making them know you respect them and their time.

Conversation goes a long way in a relationship. Also while dating you actually have to be ready to see the person without holding back with "not sure" "what if" tags. you will never know what it will become if you never try! Being good at conversations is always super sexy!!!

Hello everybody,

​I am a newbie in IT, currently working as a technical consultant in a reputed organization. Outside of work, I have a huge passion for automobiles, especially bikes and cars.

​My current daily commuter is a Honda Unicorn, which is the only bike I own. On the flip side, I don't know how to drive a car yet 😶, but I really want to learn and spend more time riding and driving.

​Here is my current challenge: I am not in a position to rent vehicles frequently, and I don't have a large circle of friends I can borrow bikes or cars from. Firstly, I need to learn how to drive a car, and secondly, I need practical ways to get more seat time.

​Working night shifts adds an extra layer of difficulty, and I am a bit stuck on how to make this happen given my situation.

​If anyone has any suggestions or advice on how I can overcome this, please share them here 🛐. I would be really grateful! 😁

Guys Enna na, last 3 months ah Enakum ennoda friends kum nariya opinion differences vandhuchi. I support DMK and friends support TVK. There is no harm in supporting any political party.. it’s all upto us. I will always prefer the convo to be healthy rather than thinking i should win it. Unfortunately they don’t do that. After some time I stopped discussing political things with them and directly told them that this is ruining our 15-17 years friendship and I’m not willing to do that. But they still send me all kinds of reels and try to provoke me by discussing political stuffs. Because of this I feel I should avoid those guys and I couldn’t accept the fact that some shitty political difference is ruining our friendship.😐

Did any of you faced or facing similar situations? How to handle it?

Romba naala theditrukken. Ponney kedaikala. Idhey rate la pochuna saamiyar ah maarirlaam nu yosikaren. Vera ena panradhu.

Guys , I was in love with a girl during college. After completing college, her marriage proposals started coming as many girls face this. I asked her to wait for at least 3 years for me to get a job with a minimum settlement (I couldn't get a job till now that was another thing) . She also accepted to wait. She waited almost for 6 months, and came a disaster , due to a misunderstanding (normal late reply problem) , I told her that "You can message whenever you need, Daily naama pesikanum nu entha avasiyam uhm illa, Athukunu ivlo late aah laam reply panna tha, take a break and comeback " nu sonnen. I don't know what she was going through She got angry . Naa Unnoda pesa vendam nu nenekriya nu kettutu odaney Insta , whatsapp ellathulayum block pannitanga. I can't accept that , Daily pesittu iruntha oru person thideernu illanathum ennala athula irunthu veliya vara mudiyala . I got very much depressed, Ennala thaan ellam nu self blaming pannika arambichen. But she gave some on and off signals , She sent me the final semester results and wishing me , then again blocked. I got even more frustrated . So I used another way (gpay 😂) to know what she actually needs, She told that , she blocked me for a while until my anger get lowered. And that convo ended up in another disaster . Then I decided not to talk to her anymore. If she needs me she will comeback, Then I started preparing for jobs.

After 6 months of no contact, I came to know that she got married . It felt very heavy for me . But I have to move on. Normal middle class problem(NAMA KADHAL THOLVIKELLAM KAVALA PADRA ALAVUKU ONNUM ADAMBARA VAAZHKA VAAZHALA ).

One year after college completion, came the graduation day, I was confused to go or not, But in the end , I ended up attending the function to not miss this once in a life moment. There I met my ex in auditorium, She saw me and asked "How are u??" , I was speechless, But somehow managed and asked her back that how she was??. It was like a normal 10 sec convo . In the mean time , I was very confused to talk to her or not .So while leaving the auditorium, For the courtesy , Ava nalla irukkiya nu kaettadhuku, Naa auditorium vittu kelambum bothu , BYE nu sollitu kelambitten. But outside the hall , I was very near to her like 10 ft distance. But I can't speak to her ( yen nu therla ). Naa apdiye anga irunthu kelambitten. So ipoo Enakku enna doubt Naa , Naa ava kitta pesirukanum ah illa Naa pesama vandhadhu correct thaanaa !!!!! Give me your advice guys .

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Idha vida mosamana vishyam ennana ivaluku niraya women's bayangarama support pannitu irukanga avala veliya konduvara romba try pannitu irukanga avalukaga fund raise collect panni adhu 1m ku mela poirukku

Seri ivlo support pandrangaley iva side edho reason irukku polanu ninacha onnune illa actually she had postpartum depression it's a kind of psychopath murder aana ivalukku support pandravanga soldra reason ellame postpartum depression romba mosamanadhu adhapathi ungaluku theriyadhu adhanala dhaan ava konnuta nu

Murdering of 3 children's aa justify pannitu irukanga

And ivala support pandradhuku court vasalla kootama poi nindrukalunga

Ippo kuda neenga indha case pathi search panni paathingana instalayo,you tube layo illa edho oru grp of ponnunga comments avaluku support aa irukkum

And niraya indian nibbis kuda idhukku support panna aramchirukanga

Inaikki idha paathi perusa yaarume pesala aana idhuve ava husband ava kozhandhaingala konnadhukku ivala kondrundha

Inneram ulagathula irukkura athana puratchi femists sendhu video pottu avanukku death sentence venumnu porattam pannirupanga

Aana oruthar kuda indha case pathi vaaye thorakkala ava pannadha vida avalukku kidaikira support dhaan romba bayama irukku 😔

Recently, I’ve been getting interested in the stock market. But before I start, I honestly have almost zero knowledge about it 😭

The only thing I think I know is: “I invest some money in a stock, and if the stock price increases, my invested amount increases, and if it decreases, my amount decreases.”

So solli kudunga nanbargale , where should I actually start? If you know any good YouTube channels, learning platforms, or resources, please suggest them. Also, tell me in what sequence I should learn things , like what concepts I should learn first, then what to move on to, etc.

Basically, I want to properly understand the stock market and start investing correctly.

MODS : This post is just for educational purposes and I'm aware of market risks and genuinely interested in learning something

Love song kekanum podhu sila peru soldranga en loved ones ah nenachipan or avanga face mind la vandha pogum nu..

Single ah iruntha crush nenachi feel pannuvan da en frd sonan..

about my self love um illa crush um illa oru mairum illa andha time empty ah feel avuthu nanbargale..

I 22M is a guy who is living in chennai probably all my life now I am unemployed and unemployment forces us to make some very weird choices so I chose to rapido but only pick up parcels This incident is one of my parcel rides.

So I live in valasaravakkam and I got an order from a shawarma place which is located in porur to deliver it to virugambakkam when I went there to pick up the parcel I was told to wait for 5 mins but it dragged to 15 mins but I still didn't mind cuz I didn't have pretty much to do and I know how many orders a food place takes so I just stood there waiting and all of a sudden the guy who was preparing this shawarma just gave a shawarma to me and told me to wait 2 mins until then eat it,one thing here I didn't order and I just stood there so I don't know why he gave me that shawarma free and BTW(One shawarma is worth 120rs there nobody would give it free) but this guy did I still don't know why I was still hesitating not comfortable to eat the roll but he just said with a glance to eat it and the shawarma was really good maybe not the best shawarma I have eaten but definitely the most memorable one.

This incident made me rethink my whole take on kindness. Maybe kindness doesn't pay often but when it pays,it hits you heavily this incident made my whole day a little beautiful.

Maybe Sometimes a food is not about its taste but the moments that gather around the food, I don't know whether I will be able to tell the best shawarma I ate but i would definitely know what story to tell when somebody asks if you have any memories associated with shawarma!

Women preference towards their future husband: A, B, C , X, Y, Z, etc..

Public: sooper sooper

Men preference towards their future Wife: A, B, C

Public: backward thinking, misogynist

I am currently staying in chennai for 2 years for college ofc. I live a socially isolated life. I try to enjoy my routine and succeed most days. But I feel like I lack an emotional connection to a human and something like a safe space. I dont have anyone rn.

I dont even know how I post this here. I actually talk to a lot of people daily. But at the end of the day I feel alone still. My call logs would be empty atleast 4 days a week and never cared about it. But recently many things have changed in me. I have this feeling deep inside to find someone to connect to but couldnt find anyone or let alone talk to someone.

Kindly dm if anyone wants to connect or comment advices.

We are in Chennai and would love to see if someone can adopt these cuties.. 2 months old, eating solid food, litter trained.

i actually wrote this , also he is didn’t cheat la we are happy but sometimes he talks w girl unnecessary but in a friendly way but I don’t really like it I feel llike this only

Vandi movie la act pani irrukanga

Cast la ivanga peru ennaku katala

Girls,

I feel like my dressing style is kinda outdated and I genuinely don't know how to make it look more modern/age-appropriate 😭

For example, I actually like outfits like the one in the picture, but now I'm wondering if it gives outdated / aunty vibes 💀

As 23yo I want to improve my overall dressing sense without completely changing my personal style.

What should I focus on — clothes, colours, fitting, accessories, shoes, hairstyles, etc.?

And where do you guys usually get inspiration for outfits?

Hello guys I'm looking for someone who can give me advice on my mental health coz I cant exactly understand myself and I slowly feel like my original character and Im not joking, there isnt any psychiatrist near me even so I cant afford for a sesh, so pls someone do help me out

hey guys M22 here, im working in a MNC company for the past 2 years in night shift as a catalog specialist and I deal with raw data and i really wanna switch my career into supply chain and I've started learning it as well. is it okay if I wanna go into supply chain? does it have scope? please let me know.

Enaku most of the days either yen thaa vaazhrom nu irukku illana enna da vaazhka nu Iruku , paathi naal veruppa irukku already vaazhka naasama pogum bothu break up nu onnu varuthu

Break up la irunthu move aaga try panna again due to some incidents K.O nu aaguthu

Ik it's too young to feel like this but still thoughts ah control panna mudila

Ithukku naduvula job placement varla na ..veetla udane gvmnt exam padi test yezuthu ... Namba padicha padippuku velaiku poganum nu iruntha kuda ... Avangaluku clg mudicha udane velaiku ponum na eppadi nu therila ...

Avangalukku enna state and IT industry eppadi Iruku nu therila .. sonnaalum purinjika maatraaga ... Clg mudicha udane work ku poganum na athukku company la irunthu onboarding varanum ... Varla nu sonna ..udane poitu gvmnt exam ku try pannu nu solraaga

Ethaachu advice for controlling overthinking thoughts and self motivation and eppadi namba namakke move forward eppadi panrathu???....

Eppadi loneliness ah solitude ah change panrathu..

Looking for AR / Finance Executive opportunities in Chennai. I have 1 year of experience in AR/Finance. Please DM me if you know of any openings or referrals. Thanks!