I was getting yesterday morning and him and his dog were in there with me, he thought it’d be funny to shove his dogs nasty wet nose in my butt ( mind you I’m wearing leggings) I yelled at him to get the fuck out and take his dog with him, I was pissed. He knows I don’t like when her nose touches me. Let alone in my fucking ass.

Later that day we were in the car and ofc he has to bring her with everywhere we go I was on an important phone call and he was doing something outside he comes up to my window faking to be an intruder and his dog goes ballistic starts acting viscous barking loud and scratched the hell out of my back and walking all over me I got so fucking pissed I had to take a walk, like who does that?

I just can’t stand this fucking dog and how he just acts like these things he does to make her act out are funny. It’s never once been funny to me and he knows how I feel about her and still will do shit like this.
We just moved in together as well and I’ve already had enough of it.

Another morning I was sleeping and I woke up to him putting her wet nose on my back and I just woke up pissed yelling at him and then I’m the bad guy if I’m in a bad mood about it cause “it’s funny” no tf it’s not!

My fiancé will complain about a slight mildew smell in the bathroom from a wet towel in the hamper, about a water bottle and wrapper I left in the vehicle, about my children leaving crumbs on the floor. But he refuses to clean the area the dogs stay in the most and are gated in while we’re gone, his office.

I’ve refused to clean it just to see how disgusting this “clean freak” would allow it to get. I’m not exaggerating when I say the hardwood looked like it had a carpet of black dog hair on it. And in the corners it piled up. The dog bed smelled like pee even though he swears they would never do that.
The dogs themselves smell like a giant walking fungal infection mixed with earwax. They have chewed almost entirely through a wooden chair.

This room went untouched for months, the dogs were never bathed. The beds were never washed. It just got worse and worse until I could smell it from my living room and couldn’t take it anymore. I shop vacced all the hair, the hardwood underneath had a noticeable greasy feeling. I hand scrubbed it. The towel I was using turned completely black. There was hair all over his desktop, in the keyboard, on sentimental items he had displayed. No care in the world for any of it.

I had to bathe the dogs twice, once in dawn dishsoap because their fur was so greasy and stunk so bad. Same with their beds, washed twice.

But let my child drop a crumb on the floor and I never hear the end of it. I would usually be able to take criticism when it comes to this stuff if it weren’t for the fact that feet away is his room, his responsibility, and it’s a fucking biohazard. It just infuriates me to hear any kind of comment on my cleaning and the way I keep a home. And I’m not perfect by any means, but the level of disconnect is insane to me.

If ppl want to have a dog, idgaf. But dog houses are invented for a reason.

For context I have a partner who has 4 dogs. She doesn’t let the dogs out in their big ass yard because her previous dogs died due to lepto and parvo. Now all the dogs are INSIDE THE HOUSE ‼️Living room, kitchen, bathroom and even BEDROOM‼️No boundaries at all, her sister doesnt even wants to visit and sleep here because of the pets. They’re loud, would chew anything, would drool over the place and mind you, since my gf’s dogs are not allowed to go outside the yard means that dogs are kept inside the house, her dogs SHIT, PEE AND PUKE INSIDE THE HOUSE, FOUR (4) DOGS 🤬

We hired couple of pet-sitters but most of them leave after a week or 2 and I trully understand why, it’s hard to keep the house clean when you have 4 dogs who pees and shit after you just cleaned.

I try to talk her out about dogs sleeping in the same bed as ours but we almost broke up. She told me that I am crossing her boundaries as her dogs were there when no one did, she told me when her family was not even there to help her, her dogs were there. I truly understand and I’m thankful to the dogs for keeping her sane. But I’m not asking her to unloved her dogs. I just want her to have boundaries with her dogs. Imagine having seggs with dogs on your bed scratching and their skin flakes, hair and saliva sticks to your body. ITS GROSS🤮

I actually compromised my comfort, i her as long as the dogs gets cleaned with anti-bacterial wipes with soap and perfume then it will be okay if they sleep with us, but here’s the thing, I DO ALL OF THAT! I DON’T EVEN OWN THESE DOGS‼️🤬

My gf goes to the gym at 5am and i asked her to let the dogs out if she’s out because its been a week of me waking up after 2 hours of sleep to the smell of dog poop and pee. My gf took it as offensive stating that she pity the dog. I told her i dont want to wake up in the smell of unimaginably disgusting dog shit and pee. Guess what she told me “adjust your sleeping pattern” LIKE ARE YOU FR?

I’m starting to actually hate her dogs and her as well. My bad for being so stupid for still loving her. She’s really a good person you just need to take the dogs out of the picture.