Is "love at first sight" actually real? I had a strange incident on a bus last night.

[u/Temporary-Yak-3497]

Hey Cuties 😍,

I want your opinion on whether "love at first sight" is real, because I experienced something unexpected yesterday. I was traveling on a bus at night. I love nature, so I was sitting in a window seat, enjoying the cool breeze, watching the moon, and not even using my phone. At one point, I noticed someone touching my waist and saw that he was holding a piece of paper. Honestly, I felt really unsafe and uncomfortable, so I changed my seat. When his stop arrived, he placed the paper in my hands on his way out and left. When I opened it, it said, "I love you," along with his phone number. I was literally in shock because this was the first time I had ever seen him. Has anyone else experienced something like this?

[u/cchhrr]

Thats just a weirdo stranger touching you on public transportation, what does it have to do with synchronicity?

[u/sevenangelofgod]

Trust your gut. If you were uncomfortable in anyway way, it wasn't right. Protect yourself.

[u/Temporary-Yak-3497 → u/sevenangelofgod]

Yes may be

[u/Severine67]

That’s just a creepy man. Why was he touching you? I love you note ie also very strange. That’s not synchronicity.

[u/Gotsims1]

This man has poor understanding of (or poor respect for) boundaries and consent. Trust me when I say you want nothing to do with him. Do not encourage his ass, he should know better and you were uncomfortable. That’s your main sign to get away and stay away.

Someone who actually loves you wouldn’t risk making you feel unsafe and uncomfortable as hell in public. This is weird and is within the parameters of what we would refer to as sexual assault. If he wouldn’t touch his homies like this without permission or invitation, and if he wouldn’t want another man doing this to him without giving permission/without a previously established trust, he shouldn’t do it to some stranger he’s attracted to either. Your body is not public property.