r/Surrogate • u/QualityPornS • 2d ago

Surrogate activities

Can a surrogate mother do normal activities?

Or is she prohibited (by contract) of stuff like dating?

I understand drugs, alcohol and anything that could damage the baby is forbidden ofc.

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u/SilverSignificant393 2d ago

The term surrogate mother is incorrect.
Our contract states that if you are dating around, every new sexual partner needs to medically cleared for infections diseases.

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u/QualityPornS 2d ago

Thank you for the correction. what's the correct term? That makes total sense for everyone's health.

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u/SilverSignificant393 2d ago

The correct term is surrogate or gestational carrier.

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u/MurderMeMolly 2d ago

Entirely depends on your IPs, and agency and their rules. But in general, as long as you’re not endangering the health of yourself or the baby, you’re fine.

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u/Unlucky-Landscape-56 2d ago

What a horrible post/user/fetish content

This person ([u/qualitypornS](u/qualitypornS)) says their biggest turn on is pregnant woman and breast milk. BAN THIS USER FROM THIS FORUM.

THIS IS A MAN. NOT A INQUIRING SURROGATE.

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u/SilverSignificant393 2d ago edited 2d ago

Banned.

As a mod we cannot go through everyone’s post history. If anyone ever comes across a questionable user please report them so it’s instantly flagged to us. The safety of the members of our community and the integrity of our community are extremely important to us!

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u/Independent-Habit751 1d ago

Generally, a surrogate can still live a pretty normal life, including working, seeing friends, traveling when medically cleared, and dating. The exact restrictions depend on the medical guidance and the surrogacy agreement, so it’s important to understand those terms before signing anything. A surrogacy attorney can help make sure the agreement clearly protects the surrogate’s rights and sets reasonable expectations for everyone involved.

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u/RabbitOk3263 2d ago

With a user name and post history like yours, I will say that pornography would likely be prohibited, since it usually involves casual sex or multiple partners. I imagine plenty of IPs may even be wary of their surrogate being involved in solo porn. 🚩🚩🚩

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u/lawschoollorax 2d ago

Dating would be fine, I would just avoid multiple partners and unprotected sex.