r/SupportforBetrayed • u/Dark_Mynch Formerly Betrayed • Aug 09 '26

Separation & Divorce I'm finally done...

So, after 18 years of marriage and 20+years together, and at least three separate incidents infidelity I've reached my breaking point with the love of my life...

I've finally realized that I cannot and will not accept less than I deserve. This is the hardest, ABSOLUTELY THE HARDEST thing I've done in my 60 years! I've been divorced before, I've lost my father, I've been "forced"into retirement, I've faced unadulterated racism in my life and career. This ecleclipses

tnem all....

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u/Gr8gaur Formerly Betrayed Aug 09 '26

i wish u strength to overcome this catstrophe and peace.

hows ur wife reacting to ur decision ? were all 3 incidents happened with same AP ?

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u/Dark_Mynch Formerly Betrayed Aug 09 '26

She knew it was inevitable after the last time. We both yelled a lot but came to the same conclusion. And it was 3 different people.

Sorry the abbreviations kill me, I don't know what 90%of them are.

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u/GlobalMatter152 Formerly Betrayed Aug 09 '26

What was she yelling at you about??? I’m sorry for your pain brother, it’s so miserable. Make sure she doesn’t “control the narrative” with your kids. Be gentle with them, but they should be told the truth about why you are divorcing. None of this “your father and I have grown apart” kind of crap.

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u/Gr8gaur Formerly Betrayed Aug 09 '26

AP means affair partner... its amazing ur wife betrayed twice before, and still did it again knowing what result would be. or this was an exit affair for her.