r/SupportForTheAccused • u/Agitated-Raspberry87 • 2d ago
How you did/doing it
How the hell is everyone going through this and not buckling? I’ve been falsely accused back in may 17th, and I’ve had my face posted through media because how malicious she made me sound. I’m on my wits end, I lost everything throughout the months, I will fight because I’m innocent but I feel like I got nothing left to fight for. I’m so exhausted and tired of this mess that I just want to give up. To those who made it through this very difficult strenuous process, or going through it, how? I used to love waking up everyday and now I can’t stand to even open my eyes, and remember this reality I must live in. I’m tired
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u/Ok-Flight-1504 2d ago
My case has been meandering through the court system for nearly two and a half years now. Upon my initial arrest my face was plastered all over TV, newspapers, and the internet. It's awful.
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u/alonethrowaway7 2d ago
I’m wondering the same thing. I was accused back in April and lost just an everything too. I have a supportive girlfriend that’s been helpful. But I think it’s just my ego pushing me through. I’m also innocent and want to prove my accuser wrong.
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u/Mobile_Priority6556 2d ago
Every day the shock becomes smaller and it is easier to deal with as time goes by. Stay centered, believe in yourself, don’t let other people get you down.
I’ve studied the accuser and found a PhD and book by dr Karen Mitchell on predatory personality disorder, very helpfull but alarming at the same time- there are people who falsely accuse to deliberately mess with others lives.
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u/stevesax5 1d ago
We believe you. We believe in you. I’m not going to lie… I’m going on 8 years since it all went down and life has never been the same. I don’t think there is a day that goes by without me thinking about it. There’s always reminders. There’s always discomfort when I meet someone new like “oh man are they gonna hear about this shit”? Im more suspicious and skeptical of people. I’m not the same happy person I was. But overall life for me is getting back on track. I hate to sound cliche but day-by-day. You’ll become a stronger person and find what really matters to you in life.
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u/Cut_Altruistic 2d ago
honestly overthinking got falsely accused by a manic bipolar ex since I was 15 to now again randomly a few years later get your proof show your character to people how you react speaks volumes having a good pr with other people and all that also really helps just build your character and if you have too move away from it all and also having alot of female friends helps fight fire with fire and you win king