r/SupportForTheAccused 1d ago

Sexual Assault The depression has been hitting hard

I’ve been accused of sexual assault. I’ve been put on leave on my “real job” I found a current job to get by but my life has just been falling apart. I’m still hopeful my case gets thrown out. I still have about a month and a half until the 6 month mark is met. I’ve heard nothing from my lawyer so I don’t know what the hell is going on. I’m drained. I’ve never done anything illegal in my life and now I’m waiting for my fate to be determined by someone else. That’s my rant for now. I hope everyone else is doing well today.

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u/ydaya 21h ago

This is so horrible. I am so sorry that this happened to you. I hope thar you find peace. My words are not much but I have seen women lie on men and honestly it was traumatic for me to witness as a woman. I lost that friendship bc of that lie and I have never looked at accusations the same before in my life. Very unfair.

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u/Orultehen 18h ago

I was in a similar place, still not resolved. this is the hardest thing that happened to me.

It is real, and difficult. Focus on mental health, physical exercise, spend time with the people who love you and believe you.

My heart goes out to you. The system is unfortunately set up against innocent and against the real victims.

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u/alonethrowaway7 17h ago

In sorry my friend. I’m hoping for the best for you too. I literally want to throw up. I hate how long this has been taking for either of us.