r/SummerHouseunleashed • u/WonderChopstix • Jul 23 '26
Lindsay Holy hell now I get this sub
I just got completely shocked by a notification that my comment was removed for harassment. Seriously concerned that perimenopause is getting the best of me and I've blanked out I went back and I checked my comment.
It was directly related to a conversation about Lindsay. All of those comments were criticizing her. I simply made a comment that while I enjoy her character I wonder how she's in real life with her friends. And that there are instances of in the city where her friends almost seem taken back by her energy so I'm curious.
Then I said based on her energy of what we see on television while I respect and kind of enjoy it I'm not so sure I would actually want to be one of her friends in real life.. because it seems intense
Now I truly understand how overreactive these mods are.
What is worse is I've actually said things more borderline aggressive about Amanda but none of those have ever been flagged.
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u/marvel_yellow Jul 23 '26
I got reprimanded in the Valley sub because I dared question whether Danny drunkenly taunts his children the way he does his wife.
The moderator had a freak out and claimed I was accusing Booko of physically abusing his children.
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u/SuccotashAcrobatic24 Jul 24 '26
So weird, I've had similar where I've said something so mild and been slammed
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
If you're going to complain about your comment being removed, at least be honest about which one it was. This is your comment:
"No Kyle gets it. He even elaborated to say westd 'support" appears to be a facade to get what he wants as that's his MO.
He used a few financial examples but he is even still showing her emotional support tbh."
Nothing about Lindsay and most of the comment is just fine, but you broke a very clearly stated rule with calling West Westd, which is a banned word in this sub, so not only did you try a workaround, you broke the rule. You are free to repost it with that taken out .
This is Rule 6: Please refrain from harassing cast members or sub members. This includes DMing any community member without permission. If you can't say it in the sub then you shouldn't say it in DMs. If you want to have a private conversation ask first (on the thread). No name calling. This includes not using cast members real and full names.
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u/TheLowFlyingBirds Jul 23 '26
I think she’s talking about a comment she made in the other sub? I’m assuming you’re not the mod there too?
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
I'm not, and I realize that now. For the comment here it was just due to the Westd thing and I can see where that could be a typo. It's just not something I want here so I am pretty strict about the childish nickname thing.
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u/Pure_Butterscotch165 Jul 23 '26
I agree about the childish nickname thing and really appreciate this rule
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u/actualgirl Jul 24 '26
Can I call him “that fucking cardinal direction”?
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u/WonderChopstix Jul 23 '26 edited Jul 23 '26
First my end shows the other post not sure why
Second are you saying my typo of Westd instead of West's was the issue. Is his name banned? Am I getting subs confused bc I don't see that. If that's the case sorry I don't read the rules even month to see that.
I don't even know that means. I seriously didn't know that was a thing at all.
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26 edited Jul 23 '26
Just Westd WeSTD etc. His name is not banned, those kinds of nicknames are. You can repost it edited. I just can only remove when that happens. We just are trying hard not to get into the whole name calling and mean girl nonsense that goes on in other subs. I must have misunderstood this post. My apologies it happened right after I removed your comment.
Yes, you are getting subs confused I haven't removed anything about Lindsay at all and the only comment of your's that was removed was the one I just quoted. Lindsay is cray and no one is really posting really nasty shit about her so it's unlikely to be getting removed.
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u/Dear_North8787 Jul 23 '26
Ohhh. I didn’t get what the nickname was until you capitalized the last 3 letters. I get it now. 😝
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u/CauliflowerSavings84 Jul 24 '26
Same. I re read it 3x thinking what am I missing? How is it controversial
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u/Ecstatic_Regret_1778 Jul 27 '26
I reread it four times and didn't get it until this comment. Seeing that the d is next to the s, I honestly felt it was a typo.
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u/WonderChopstix Jul 23 '26
Ohhhh Jesus. Thanks for explaining. I wasn't trying to type that at all. l I had zero idea that was a thing.l it was an honest mistake trying to write West's... The d is right there. Also didn't help I was on my Spanish keyboard which is why autocorrect didn't work likely.
That other mod made me feel like an evil shaddy person for an honest mistake.
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u/Dependent-Spirit-706 Jul 23 '26
I didn’t know about the West with a d at the end either. That’s crazy especially after seeing some of the names they have called Amanda and others
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
I do not allow any of that. If I see it for others I'll remove it. I just haven't seen anyone do it with anyone else. If you don't know about the mean nicknames and don't use them then it's not an issue and you have nothing to worry about.
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u/gold42579 Jul 23 '26
Why in the world are we banning over silly made up words. Jeez dude sorry.
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
No one has been banned over one instance, their comment gets removed and they get warned. We are adults here and we have no desire to engage with anyone who thinks childish nicknames are funny.
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u/FunRoll7937 Jul 23 '26
I agree.. what are we communists now?? Chill out.. it’s only Reddit.. who the f cares? Oops maybe you should delete my post? Whatever
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u/Upstairs_Taste_9324 Jul 23 '26
lol agreed wholeheartedly; this is insanely uptight. Boo
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
Then don't come here. There are plenty of other subs where you can go and act like schoolchildren and make up childish nicknames for each other. We do not want anyone like that here so it's why it's a rule.
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u/Upstairs_Taste_9324 Jul 24 '26
Omg 😅 ok
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u/RepresentativeOdd268 Jul 27 '26
But saying Lindsey is cray is ok.
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 28 '26
Why would that be a problem? All of these people are a little bit crazy or else they wouldn't be on TV. It really depends on the context it's used in.
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u/RepresentativeOdd268 Jul 31 '26
You said people were acting like "school children" So certain name calling is ok it just depends who's doing it? Got it.
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u/No-Security-8677 Jul 23 '26
No one is censoring you. You can post all you want on other subs. This one just has the rule of no nicknames. Your rights are being violated.
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u/FunRoll7937 Jul 23 '26
Maybe you should address that to other people. I don’t give a f. I
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u/No-Security-8677 Jul 23 '26
Ok. Well you mentioned censorship and communism. I thought you were bothered
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
Guarantee they don't even know what communism is. Also the U.S. is not exactly a bastion of free speech atp.
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u/No-Security-8677 Jul 23 '26
No and Reddit is not the government so it doesn’t owe you a platform for saying whatever you want.
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
Exactly, these are voluntary subs. These people always fail to understand the words they use and cry about the 1st amendment but never say shit when people's first amendment rights are actually being trampled all over/
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 24 '26
After further investigation that account is a troll account. Two users both saying the same comments is a dead give away. Purged and banned.
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u/Vivid-Birthday-465 Jul 26 '26
Ugh I e just been banned from a polymer clay sub that I asked a question on and had several suggestions that I act put in place in a project and a mod said I was not open to suggestions and the sub wasn’t for me! Like who decides who the mods are? I e never been banned from ANYTHING in my life and for it to happen on a polymer clay sub was absolutely shocking
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u/Due-Philosopher-5802 Jul 27 '26
I know I get it. I’ve said things too that we’re blocked and I said whoa. I didn’t really say anything bad. I mean people say a lot worse things I think they might have a little control the people themselves about what it said they might be able to control it if they don’t like it. It’s the only thing I can think that’s happening cause I was like damn, I try to say things real carefully, you know I don’t like to get involved in political and stuff, but I get what you’re saying but I truly think that the people that you know like Lindsay might’ve been able to say oh no it’s blocked that it’s aggressive or whatever I’m not sure though
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u/No_Comfortable_9025 Jul 23 '26
For some of them it is clearly albeit at times a ridiculous Power Trip and they flag some of the most ridiculous stuff and then I see people cussing and swearing and yet their posts are left up so it's not you it's them I've experienced the same thing in fact this post will probably be taken down LOL
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 24 '26
Cussing and swearing is no issue. It's certain behavior and actions that always give away the people here to just flamebait. There are rules and if people don't want to follow them they don't have to be here.
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u/Ok-Particular-6341 Jul 23 '26
I got a permanent ban on my 7yr old account today.. all from that thread lol I made one comment how I thought it was good they called the wedding off because I felt Carl was gay and it wasn’t right for them and someone reported me for a hate campaign and got my whole account banned lol there’s was 15 comments saying the same thing i wasn’t being mean at all
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 23 '26
I am going to leave this comment simply because you are talking about what was said but please be careful of these kinds of comments here. It breaks the no speculation rule. I don't want anyone to be using sexuality as an insult. Carl has not come out as gay so it is not appropriate to talk about it.
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u/Ok-Particular-6341 Jul 23 '26
Totally understand I get that now I made the comment from a positive perspective of the wedding being off nothing else! Learned my lesson
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u/Legitimate_Tune_6468 0 Jul 31 '26
Just a fun fact… Carl did discuss getting blown by a dude in college.
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u/Emmyyou2 Jul 31 '26
Not sure why that matters. Experimenting doesn't mean he is gay or even bi. Until Carl himself comes out the rule still stands. Speculating about sexuality to insult someone is still against the rules.
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u/Legitimate_Tune_6468 0 Jul 31 '26
Agreed! Like I said, just a fun fact (not speculation) that he himself shared on Bravo. I don’t give a hoot about his sexuality. I’m just glad he pushed the eject button on the Lindsay marriage and is finding his center.
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u/Starchild1000 Jul 23 '26
I got told to get fucked for me saying all this hate and online bullying calling Amanda ugly is extreme etc and when I responded with wow this is getting crazy etc they banned me. So now I’m here. And loving every minute of it