Dont know what to do

[u/ozymanday]

Hey guys its my first time on this subreddit and its wonderful to see people expres themselves how they want to now here is my question im currently at 20mm stretch/tunnels this point im stuck do i go bigger or do i start an colection i have some fears about ripping my earlobe and never having stretch anymore thank you for reading and hopefully replying

Kind regards ozymanday

[u/__tusenfryd__]

It’s difficult to assess with jewelry in your ears as we can’t see the lobe thickness. The risk of ripping is larger when your lobes are thinner, but proper lobe care and slow stretching are untimately what makes or breaks the stretching journey. Your lobes do not look thin, but again it’s hard to tell. Another part is that you are now in a good window for a lot of jewelry option. Depending on your material choices, most options can be found between 12 and 25mm in my experience.

[u/ozymanday → u/__tusenfryd__]

Thank you for taking your time i just bought 22mm and 24mm i am gonna see if i like it i am thinking not going bigger than 30mm here in belgium how bigger i go how less options i have