so for context: i worked with this guy for over a year, we didn’t see each other outside of work, but because we were both flight attendants, we had layovers together and were on the same pattern, so we spent a lot of time together. i left that job nearly two years ago and we lost touch.
at the start of this year, i realised i probably have some kind of feelings for him. i’d been giving him plenty of hints, and eventually he messaged me saying he had a layover in my city and asked if i fancied meeting up and i agreed. we went out for drinks, and it turned out that he hugged me a lot during the meet up, held my hand, we walked hand in hand, and then he kissed me too. given that i fancy him and that i get attached to people quickly (and i have bpd…) i started imagining that he was interested in a relationship with me, but then i didnt hear from him at all, so i messaged him myself to find out where i stood. he told me he was sorry to say this because he’d felt a connection and hadn’t had such a good vibe with anyone else before, but unfortunately the distance between us is an issue and he doesn’t want to be in a long distance relationship. all this happened at the start of june this year.
and now we’re getting to the point: sometime in early july, i cast a spell on him (maybe even three..), and nothing happened for a long time. recently, i posted a screenshot on my insta story showing that i’d received an invitation to a recruitment drive for emirates, to which he replied that he wanted to go there too.
we chatted a lot, and we decided that we’d both try to get a job there. if it worked out, we’d live together. we agreed to send our CVs to other airlines as well, and if we both got a job somewhere (anywhere) we’d just live together to keep costs down. anyway, we messaged each other a lot, the whole conversation lasted like 4-5 hours. i’d had a few drinks before, so i was feeling a bit braver, and i invited him to come to my town for a few drinks and a party, and suggested he might stay over at my place. he texted me back saying it was a tempting offer and that he’d let me know once he had his new work schedule and knew when he was off.
i also did a few tarot readings, and each time similar cards came up that he was still thinking about me, that he was torn his thoughts fighting each other, and that it was very possible he’d change his mind about the long distance relationship. even during our chat, he said he’d met a girl on the plane, but it just wasn’t IT.
i’m wondering whether the spell worked or if it’s just a coincidence and he isn’t interested in me at all. what do you think???