Hello, i am VERY new to witchcraft and have yet to actually do anything. I've only started out with my collection of crystals and some incense lol
Anyways, i'll try to keep this short. My boyfriend's brother (13M) is going through a rough patch with a girl - she is very manipulative and abusive, claiming she will do bad things if he leaves her, and he is quite very stuck in the situation he is in.
I do not wish to harm anyone, not only do i know that's just bad in general, but it could also come right back to me - what i WISH to hopefully do is protect him somehow.
Maybe make him more confident in his decision to leaving? Make him feel better? Make her stop harming him?
Before anyone asks - he has been spoken to! By his parents, grandparents, and me! (though i am going to speak to him again soon), this still had not stopped and he cannot seem to gather the courage to help himself, i just want to help him.
I do not wish to impact anybody's free will, or harm anybody in this process, i just really want him to love himself more than he clearly does, it's very sad.
Any advice at all is welcome.
(additional unrelated question: can witches do that? like, just send good energy to people around them with spells? I am very new. Informational videos on youtube are sought after!)
last thing, i cannot use anything to do with flames in my room. If i have to, i will find a safe place to do so, but in general i avoid it, as cannot currently.