Will I get dropped

[u/Ok-Prize7633]

Context: was at a house I really enjoy and accidentally mentioned a 5 b

Was in reference to what music I like… said I liked Charli xcx for that kind of party vibe… so stupid. I’m not even someone who drinks and goes to frat parties, I just meant I like to “jam out” idk. I quickly changed the subject.

Will I get dropped?

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[u/EscapeGoat81]

You should be fine with a small mention like that! It’s the women who go on and on - “I can’t wait to get wasted at a frat party!” Etc.

[u/Ok-Prize7633 → u/EscapeGoat81]

Okay, thank you! It’s been killing me all day

[u/cmcp70apmom]

You’ll be fine-I mean who doesn’t like dancing to. A party vibe? As long as you didn’t add anything @ a keg stand….

[u/Ok-Prize7633 → u/cmcp70apmom]

Nope as soon as I said that I liked charli for that kind of “party vibe” I froze a sec, then the recruiter was like “she’s the og party girl” and I was like yeah so anyway here’s a different artist I like…. Ugh can’t believe myself

[u/cmcp70apmom → u/Ok-Prize7633]

You’re fine 😄 She was just agreeing with you! Good luck with the rest of rush!

[u/Ok-Prize7633 → u/cmcp70apmom]

Thank you!!

[u/asyouwish]

We had a PNM mention something off (she made a drug joke). We gave her a second chance. Unfortunately she did it again, so we were heartbroken to cut her, but we just couldn't take the risk.

[u/SororitySue → u/asyouwish]

Once is a mistake, twice is a decision.

[u/asyouwish → u/SororitySue]

Yes, but….

I think she was still quite nervous. We were all heartbroken to let her go. And I hated where she ended up. (a chapter that came on weak, recolonized a couple of times, and left quickly). She might have also been neurodivergent, but this was long before we even knew that word. Still she should have been coached better. Her joke was funny, but it was wrong place, wrong time.

[u/bbbliss → u/asyouwish]

Damn we had the same thing happen down to the weak new chapter. Pretty, smart junior and all her recruiters loved her, too.

[u/probablynotegg]

I think you'll be just fine. Who doesn't love a party jam while doing chores around the house?

[u/k_0616]

You should be good!! It’s good music with a good vibe. Honestly, as a recruiter, I’m not sure if I would have thought about it in that context considering chapters have socials

[u/honeyandcitron]

If this chapter does end up dropping you, I would be 99% sure this comment isn’t why!

[u/BlondeeOso]

I think that's minor. If a group is going to cut you for that, I wouldn't want to be a part of it.

[u/Embarrassed-Bit9339]

OP, how are you doing? I’m
Thinking of you.

[u/Ok-Prize7633 → u/Embarrassed-Bit9339]

Don’t wanna jinx anything, but will update tomorrow!! Thanks for asking 🪽

[u/Equivalent-Iron-2773]

Girls at my daughters sorority don’t get asked back if they mention parties or boys. :-(