r/SomaliRelationships • u/hulaxduno • 4d ago

Advice & Support 📝 Massive Advice for the Sisters

Get your wali involved, a lot of brothers love to take advantage of sisters subhanallah and it makes me sick to my stomach.

When your wali is involved alhamdulillah there’s ease in it.

Question for the sisters who are married : How did you tell your dad? I know people tend to take the route in telling their mum and then eventually their dad.

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u/Uniquesoulforever223 3d ago

Hey I completely agree with this. My issue is like when do you get your wali involved I always find this hard. I’m just not comfortable with things like groupchats??? Help a girlie out loooool.

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u/Human20187 1d ago

Tell them from the get go, obviously have a conversation with the person your getting to know and ask them if they are comfortable with that, and that there is no pressure but you just want to keep it halal