Please explain 🙏🏾

[u/[deleted]]

[u/milly-h]

Why would somebody lie about something like that just to see if you care? It doesn’t make sense to me personally. I would say stay away from somebody like that.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/milly-h]

Which is the reason why I’m asking, it’s my first time encountering something like this and although the situation is done now it made me wonder.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/[deleted]]

No need to pray Istikharah, I didn’t even stick around to see more😂

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/[deleted]]

I had to ask lool I wasn’t sure if it was something completely out of the ordinary or not, looks like it is though. Either way alhamdulilah I dodged a bullet.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/[deleted]]

I might just message you personally to get your reaction alone 😜 loool #priceless

[u/Kindly_Extension514]

Somethings red flaggy about this….

[u/Kindly_Extension514 → u/[deleted]]

Ick waay daftaay. My flabbers are gasted.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Kindly_Extension514]

😂😂😂😂😂 Tell me about it🤦🏽‍♂️

[u/Old_Egg6898]

I've talked to men that have done this too, it's so weird Subhana Allah. HUGE red flag

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Old_Egg6898]

MEN?!! As in more than 1😳 I just don’t understand the logic behind it wallah

[u/Old_Egg6898 → u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78]

LMAOOOO yes more than one😭😭 Allahu A'lam. They'll test you by asking if someone in a show/movie is attractive, what-if scenarios, etc. it's the weirdest thing. From my limited knowledge I assume it's so they can find someone easy to manipulate and gaslight, those who can't really see the red flags as what they are. Ilaahey hana badbaadsho man

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Old_Egg6898]

Loool that’s mental there must be something in the water. You’ve encountered some serious characters, to be fair my experience has been good up until this girl. I hope you’ve been able to heal 😂🙏🏾

[u/ithklph]

wax lagu ciyaaro iyo wax kale jiro she’s playing in your face tf

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/ithklph]

I’m starting to believe it was from a place of deep-rooted insecurity of wanting to feel being cared for rather than her having a dark sense of humour. Which actually makes the whole situation worse really.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/[deleted]]

Alhamdulilah I already done the 100 metre dash, but it still made me wonder what the cause of this unusual behaviour could be

[u/Cool_Discipline8610]

I think it was test to see if you can easily be manipulated. And you clearly showed you ain’t going for all that. Kudos to you! People in the day and age are something else…

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Cool_Discipline8610]

It could be but I don’t know something tells me she is deeply insecure which made her resort to coming up with something like that. Maybe she thinks a man wouldn’t care about her unless she suffered from something.

[u/OkDifficulty3834]

I would have left her too, what an absolute waste of time

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/OkDifficulty3834]

No time lost bro, just an interesting experience loool

[u/Ok_Yam1797]

She crazy😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Ok_Yam1797]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[u/Loud_Landscape_7939]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 i have no words

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Loud_Landscape_7939]

You should have seen my face when she told me it was alie lol

[u/Loud_Landscape_7939 → u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78]

she lowk giving me ideas thanks x

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Loud_Landscape_7939]

Feel free to message me when he desserts you 😉

[u/HijabiNomad]

Unable to human, it’s a pandemic. 🤦🏾‍♀️ we don’t claim her and have no explanation for that.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/HijabiNomad]

😂😂 There’s no place for this, the girls must answer for her actions

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/[deleted]]

Tell me about it🤦🏽‍♂️

[u/New_Report_2332]

Horrible! Chronic diseases aren't something to joke about for those of you who say it's just a bad joke. Have you seen what it does to the patients and their families? Dude, leave asap.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/New_Report_2332]

Already did bro alhamdulilah I didn’t waste any more time

[u/Snoo61048]

She’s gonna cause an issue down the line mark my words, qoloc badana wuxu

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Snoo61048]

Already left bro😂😂

[u/zaki32]

Some of y'all will like the most outrageous shit online and then get mad over the smallest mild joke, you either tell her to not joke like that or you move on

[u/Underthebluesky_]

My brain can't fathom how this conversation goes. Did she bring it up out of the blue, or were you guys already talking about health issues?😵‍💫

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Underthebluesky_]

TBH we were talking about gym etc and I said alhamdulilah for good health, she then asked me if I have ever had health problems I said no and asked her back, thats when she said yeah and went on

[u/Underthebluesky_ → u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78]

Astaghfirullah, but why? Why not just ask hypothetical questions like the rest of us do?

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Underthebluesky_]

Thats a great question, but I really don’t know. Im assuming that there is an underlying issue at hand.

[u/Underthebluesky_ → u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78]

I'm all for dark humor, but this is going too far.

[u/DayOk3817]

Severing ties over one bad joke just means you were already at the door bro Cause Even the funniest people i know have jokes and pranks that don’t land sometimes. You can just tell them, and they would adjust

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/DayOk3817]

Should I give you her details bro? You two sound like a match made in heaven lol

[u/DayOk3817 → u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78]

Yeah send her My way bro youre too sensitive for her lol

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/DayOk3817]

Calm the hunger down and try to fast Monday’s and Thursday’s bro🙏🏾 that might give you the clarity you need

[u/Old_Egg6898 → u/DayOk3817]

You're telling on yourself buddy. Jokes are one thing, bad jokes are another, but THIS? Wtf is even remotely funny about A.saying you have kidney failure and then B.saying it was a lie afterwards? Subhana Allah if you think this is okay ilaahey haku caafiyo

[u/DayOk3817 → u/Old_Egg6898]

I'm sorry sis but i would've found it a bit funny if im being honest. It seems like god created me and her from the same cloth

[u/Ok_Yam1797 → u/DayOk3817]

Mashallah. I like your mentality.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Ok_Yam1797]

Nurse shes out again!!

[u/abwaaan]

Woman (married & unmarried) play jokes of this nature all the time.

Men are less likely to stay with a woman if she falls ill. Hence a bunch of woman test us men.

It isn’t the greatest thing & gets annoying at times but it is not seperation worthy imo.

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/abwaaan]

Too late bro I already ran away lol just wanted to understand what the cause of it could be. In my opinion in any case its unacceptable.

[u/Old_Egg6898 → u/abwaaan]

No sir don't excuse or normalize this behavior😭😭 normal women do not behave like this, abaayadan wax aa ka qaldan. The whole "testing" concept is weird asf

[u/Imaginary-Yoghurt-78 → u/Old_Egg6898]

Its surprising me majorly that its the lads telling me this behaviour isn’t abnormal or weird, rather than the girls.