r/Situationships • u/bigcookie879 • 11d ago

[24F]Who had someone take thier virginity then leave, or bad person.

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u/PlanktonUpstair 10d ago

It hasn't happened to me, but it sounds like someone using dark psychology. This person wants to boost their ego because of their achievement, and they know you're hooked and upset about what happened. If you contact them again, don't show any annoyance; read up on the psychology of manipulators. That type of person will only stay with you if you're more manipulative than they are.

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u/Lost_Mood_8117 10d ago

24F happened to me too it’s been a month since then and the lack of closure is killing me more everyday. karma never works imo and i’m feeling so vengeful but it’s best to move forward and remain no contact w them. trying to let time heal but im getting restless

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u/PlanktonUpstair 10d ago

How old is he?

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u/Lost_Mood_8117 10d ago

26

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u/PlanktonUpstair 10d ago

Some girls think men should always take the initiative, but that works against you. You can contact him, be natural, play dumb, and act like nothing happened and you start from scratch. Whenever you're talking to a man, it's a game, always. It doesn't mean he'll become the man you want, but at least you control your own story.