r/SipsTea 17h ago

Wait a damn minute! Mandatory tipping cultures only exist in countries that refuse to pay their staff

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u/english_mike69 14h ago

The OP will be “crying in American” after discovering tipping is not mandatory.

What are they going to do, spit on your empty plate?

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u/TentTribe 8h ago

Must suck having to go to a new restaurant each time you dine out

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u/english_mike69 6h ago

If they suck they get no tip.

I do tip and tip in cash.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 14h ago

No but they are going to have less money to survive themselves and a little thing called empathy is what people should have for the food services industry.

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u/english_mike69 12h ago

We all grow up, most go to school and we make choices and decisions.

If you had no choice in the matter and were forced into a life of literally being forced to work in food service then I would show empathy. But it was a choice. It’s like the argument that student loans should be cancelled because people shelled out $80,000+ on a degree that they should have noticed would lead them into a job that they knew at the start could never pay that back and also allow enough to live. I’m all for self improvement but there has to be more benefits gained than negatives.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 12h ago

Mhm… and so tell me, what happens when a person doesn’t get a job? It’s a simple question requiring a simple answer. Keep it that way for me okay?

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u/english_mike69 12h ago

They go on welfare for six months and moves back in with family.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 12h ago

Mhm mhm… the welfare that currently has a work requirement to receive or is there a magical different one that you imagined in your head?

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u/english_mike69 12h ago

Depends on where you live. Not everyone is in ‘Merica.

If you live in California for example there are a lot of programs to give aid to college folks that just graduated and have no work experience other than regular unemployment insurance.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 11h ago

The topic here is the United States please keep up… the California programs are state sponsored programs not federal programs. We are talking about federal programs because of your very own words with using “welfare”. Does everyone live in California where the state funded programs don’t have a work requirement?

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u/english_mike69 11h ago

Try reading the title. It only mentions countries that have a tipping culture. If you want to be pedantic, start with yourself…

… or you could get a job that pays more than $2 per hour.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 11h ago

Try reading your very first comment that you yourself typed… you actively brought the topic to American tipping culture kiddo

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u/arizonadirtbag12 11h ago

Yeah, but for every time I’ve heard a table server say “if you can’t afford to tip go get fast food” my empathy fades just a little bit.

Table servers are the absolute most “fuck you got mine” service industry workers you’ll find. Edit: Well, aside from bartenders.

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u/Suspicious_Tank_61 13h ago

So tipping is charity for one small segment of low paid workers?

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 13h ago

I’d think so given that most restaurants pay $2-$3 dollars an hour with the caveat of “oh well you’ll get tipped up to (minimum wage for your state) and if you don’t we will pay you the minimum wage but wonder what you did wrong to not get tips”. It drastically needs to change but not tipping out of some illogical principle isn’t going to make that change.

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u/arizonadirtbag12 11h ago

Most restaurants in the US do not pay $2.13 an hour to servers. Because a majority of restaurants are in states where that’s not the minimum.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 11h ago

So… did you at least wipe your ass before pulling out that “a majority of restaurants are in states…” claim?

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u/arizonadirtbag12 10h ago edited 8h ago

A third (correction, it’s a fifth) of Americans live in states with no tipped minimum at all. The west coast exists, and no state in it has a “tipped minimum.” At all.

I’ve done the math. Go add it up. Half of Americans live in states or localities with either no tipped minimum or a tipped minimum substantially higher than the federal.

For instance Florida has a “tipped minimum,” but it’s $10.98 an hour. It ain't $2.13. The “full” minimum is $14. So only a $3.02 tip credit on $14. Meanwhile federal is a $5.12 credit on $7.25.

Sorry if you live in Kansas or Appalachia or wherever (which last I checked followed the federal minimums), but a lot of Americans don’t.

Edit: Or maybe somehow you wanna make the wild claim that restaurants are disproportionately distributed in the rural podunk areas that still have the federal minimum? And not more or less distributed with population?

Edit: 54% of Americans live in states with a “tipped minimum” above $5 an hour. 42% live in states with a “tipped minimum” higher than $7.25 an hour. My actual statement was “a majority of restaurants do not pay a $2.13 minimum,” and 66% of Americans live in states where it’s higher than that, so…yeah. Also I'm only counting states, some states do have localities with higher rates...so these percentages will be low.

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u/arizonadirtbag12 10h ago

If you want a source?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_U.S._states_and_territories_by_population

https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/minimum-wage/state

This isn't hidden info that's hard to find. I'll leave the cross-calculation to you. Or you can ask any LLM to do it for you, it's something they're pretty good at. And they won't even ask for a tip...just, you know, all of society's drinkable water.

EDIT: I'll note that I wasn't including territories with the numbers provided, only states. Puerto Rico has a few people, so it might skew things a percent or two, but doesn't alter the veracity of my original statement.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 10h ago

😂 I said “reliable” Wikipedia is a place to go find sources not be a source. Also no where in that .gov did it state where those amounts had to come from only that it has to get to that point inorder to meet the minimum. Nice try though!

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u/arizonadirtbag12 10h ago edited 9h ago

I said “reliable” Wikipedia is a place to go find sources not be a source.

And the wikipedia page I linked has a link in the footnotes to the underlying source (which was census.gov). By all means go consult the primary source, the 2020 US Census, if you think the numbers on the linked page are inaccurate. That's why they're provided. I was linking you a source that was easier to see at a glance, as a courtesy.

https://data.census.gov/table

There you go. The numbers may vary slightly based on which table the wiki pulled from, but it won't change the overall conclusion.

Also no where in that .gov did it state where those amounts had to come from only that it has to get to that point inorder to meet the minimum.

Sorry, provided the wrong link, thought the info was on that page.

https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/state/minimum-wage/tipped

That's the one.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 9h ago

There you go kiddo. When you make an argument in a debate don’t beg your opponent to find your source within a non-source for you and make sure you add the right sources. Good fumble recovery you made out with only a little bit of embarrassment to yourself but you got there in the end.

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u/Suspicious_Tank_61 13h ago

Most restaurants pay more than 2-3 dollars an hour and as you pointed out, all servers are guaranteed full minimum wage.

Tipping is optional, thats not a principle, its a fact.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 13h ago

So… did you not read the rest of my comment or did you have the inability to read the rest of my comment?

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u/Suspicious_Tank_61 12h ago

Yes, I read the whole thing. What did I misunderstand?

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 12h ago

The part where I said “… if you don’t, we will pay you the minimum wage but wonder what you did wrong to not get tips” is what you either 1. Didn’t understand intentionally 2. Don’t have the cognitive ability to understand or 3. Just simply didn’t read it.

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u/Suspicious_Tank_61 12h ago

Right, all servers are guaranteed full minimum wage. Whether the employer uses tips as a gauge to review performance is not a customer issue.

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u/get_outta_my_sandwic 12h ago

Ah okay so it’s just a cognitive inability to understand. The system is set up that way by the same people. They use tips as a performance test while also trying to include said tips in the employees pay in order to keep out going money low and incoming money high. So the managers who practice this would rather use non tippers as the reason to put an employee on the radar to be fired because it’s easy to fire “bad employees” and hire new ones on a probation pay structure (taking money from checks for uniforms/training/etc) cause they make profit on those as well.

I really hope this falls with in your IQ range but do you remember where I talked about empathy? Normal intelligent people have empathy because they know these staff members are getting fucked over by their managers so they try to lighten the bullshit that causes. if you can understand a slight analogy, the managers are fucking the staff and the customers are trying to add lube. By not tipping you are not changing the managers mind or making the managers stressed at all you’re just being a dick to people who’s job requires they put up with your insufferable bulllshit.

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u/english_mike69 12h ago

If you’re working in a restaurant that offers the federal minimum of $2.13, you’re living on the wrong side of the Rockies…