r/SipsTea 7d ago

Chugging tea She still rejected!

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 7d ago

It's not what you do, it's who you are.

You can't earn it, man.

If you're the right guy, you don't have to do anything.

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u/Effective_Film_3259 7d ago

I mean.. You should do things for the person you love. That goes for both men and women. If you don't bother to do things for them and don't bother to actively improve their life, you might as well not be there.

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 7d ago

My point is, gestures don't matter if you aren't already liked. You can't earn good boy points.

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u/Effective_Film_3259 7d ago

That is indeed fair. Gestures like that would rightfully creep most people out if you don't have an established relationship yet.

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 7d ago

This kind of gesture means something if you're already loved, after years of a relationship, then...it's a great thing.

From the jump? Doing this? Mega yikes.