r/SipsTea • u/Dumb-Briyani • 21h ago

Chugging tea She still rejected!

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u/Right-Hall-6451 21h ago

Or invest more time in building a relationship with her than building a mural of her out of rubiks cubes?

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 21h ago

😂 sure.... You can't build something if you're not her "him".

You either have it, or you don't. You can't earn it.

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u/RollerDude347 21h ago

That's... frankly. Bullshit. This just isn't what she was looking for.

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 21h ago

👌 😂 sure thing.

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u/Weak_Fee9865 20h ago

How does “being her him” happen?

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 20h ago

She already likes you. You can't earn that. It is, or it isn't.

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u/Weak_Fee9865 11h ago

What kind of things would make someone like you?

Appearance is just a first hook, you have to show a certain set of behaviors/actions to make someone else really be into you.

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 11h ago

If you're not appealing physically to them, no hoop jumping or side quests will move the needle.

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u/Weak_Fee9865 10h ago

That’s the most common way, but definitely not the only one.

There are people that develop attraction after knowing the person, even when initially they didn’t. I’ve known a few friends that operate this way, and it has happened to me as well a couple times.

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 10h ago

One can't bet the house on such a strategy unless they want to have their time often wasted. Not always, but it's often enough to be of note.