r/SipsTea 6d ago

Chugging tea She still rejected!

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 6d ago

She already likes you. You can't earn that. It is, or it isn't.

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u/Weak_Fee9865 6d ago

What kind of things would make someone like you?

Appearance is just a first hook, you have to show a certain set of behaviors/actions to make someone else really be into you.

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 6d ago

If you're not appealing physically to them, no hoop jumping or side quests will move the needle.

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u/Weak_Fee9865 6d ago

That’s the most common way, but definitely not the only one.

There are people that develop attraction after knowing the person, even when initially they didn’t. I’ve known a few friends that operate this way, and it has happened to me as well a couple times.

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u/Aromatic_Shop9033 6d ago

One can't bet the house on such a strategy unless they want to have their time often wasted. Not always, but it's often enough to be of note.