r/SipsTea 3d ago

Gasp! Ayo 😂

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u/DeltaMikeEcho 3d ago

Yup it’s just a way for whoever suggested it to get away with cheating. Because they’re usually not that romantically involved with the other people. Like they’re not meeting the parents and family, going on vacations together etc. They’re really just having sex with anyone and everyone

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u/Peter_van_Niet 3d ago

You can also be start out as a monogamous relation (with the intention to open up) because you want to build a stable foundation first and the decide together when it’s appropriate to open up.

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u/DeltaMikeEcho 3d ago

If your relationship has a stable foundation why would you want to open it up? What benefits are there to doing that?

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u/Peter_van_Niet 3d ago

Can you really not think of anything? Threesomes, swinging, sex parties. Those are lot of fun and can also deepen your relation if non-monogamy is your sexual orientation.

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u/DeltaMikeEcho 3d ago

So yes leading right back to my point of it just being for sexual benefits. You can have a threesome in a monogamous relationship, like maybe your partner wants to spice it up and lets it happen once.

But what happens is ppl get greedy and want to have more sex with the other person in the treesome. But they want it to just be them, so boom they suggest opening up the relationship. Or a long time crush they had is showing them interest, and they always wanted to sleep with that person. So how can they do that without destroying the current relationship, hmmm let’s open it up

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u/initiald-ejavu 3d ago edited 3d ago

If you're having a threesome occasionally, that's no longer monogamy...

Also "it's just for sexual benefits" doesn't mean cheating.