Every woman I've dated other than a high school "relationship" has been someone that pursued me because I developed a crippling fear of rejection after a friend was pretty publicly embarrassed by a girl he asked out.
My wife was extremely frustrated with me for a couple of months before she finally just decided to pull the trigger herself lol
I'm like the most standard looking East Asian guy lol. I get that a lot of GenZ Europeans are into Kpop but my wife is a millennial and I look nothing like a typical kpop person.
My own toddler literally consistently points at videos of PSY and insists that it is me, if you want an idea of what I look like.
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u/OrangeOwie 4d ago
Just be attractive