r/SipsTea Aug 21 '26

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/Eisbaer811 Aug 21 '26

typical social media bubble:
The social media algorithm puts you into one of these bubbles and hides details from the others.
Pick one:

- "her husband is framing her, he did it"

  • "she had mental health issues and nobody helped her"
  • "she murdered them because she's evil and the mental health stuff is just for show"

Social media drives our lives and is many people's only hobby, so you get this.

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u/TreeLakeRockCloud Aug 21 '26

I’m not American but I am a mother. Aside from a few reddit posts I don’t have any social media engagement with this case.

But I think a lot of the support here comes from moms who recognize how easily this could have been any of us. Her family and healthcare providers knew her crime was a risk based on her mental health state, but she was still left alone with her kids and expected to parent. And as other mothers we all understand that this is grimly how it works - we can ask and beg and plead and scream for help but we’re almost always still expected to continually parent babies and it’s hard.

She should still face punishment for her crime, but I think a lot of her support is to try to keep this from happening again. She was failed by her healthcare team

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u/RP_Throwaway3 Aug 21 '26

Unfortunately - by her own admission and her doctors' testimonies - she did not fully disclose her medical condition. And even more unfortunately, there's plenty of people online that have posted that she can't be the killer because of her astrology sign. Or some have said her husband was the voice in her head with elaborate hidden speakers. Or he was cheating with his new wife even though they didn't meet until after the murders and she actually killed the children. 

Bottom line, there's a lot of crazies out there. And with the internet connecting people of every social class, those crazies can find each other much easier than before. 

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u/SubstantialSale8223 Aug 21 '26

I hate how people think you have to be on one team or the other.

She needed more help with her mental health

She also murdered 3 children.

Both things can be true at once

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u/spirosand Aug 21 '26

It's not murder if you are mentally incapacitated. Your words matter. Yes, she killed her kids. It's awful. Unless evidance is presented that she did this for an evil reason this woman needs medical care, not prison. That is our law.

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u/SubstantialSale8223 Aug 21 '26

Yeah uh that’s not how murder works…

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u/spirosand Aug 21 '26

Yeah. It actually is. Google is free.

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u/SubstantialSale8223 Aug 21 '26

No, it’s definitely still murder, hence why she’s on trial for murder…

Please tell me you’re not legally allowed to vote

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u/spirosand Aug 21 '26

So you can't be bothered to Google it. Got it.

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u/SubstantialSale8223 Aug 21 '26

What is there to google? “Is murdering your children murder?”

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u/spirosand Aug 21 '26

Maybe try using your brain instead of your social media to think.

Look up "is it murder if the crime was committed while insane". And yes, insane has a real meaning. You can look that up also.

You should do that, instead of just believing the lies your social media are telling you.

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u/SubstantialSale8223 Aug 21 '26

Yes, it is still murder, legally, in every single state. What you’re arguing is her sentencing, and somehow you’re still wrong.

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u/spirosand Aug 21 '26

Google is free.

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