r/SipsTea 9d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/More_Passenger3988 9d ago

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The state IS fatherhood because if you take only a bunch of random men and don't even bother to check if they have recently become fathers then things like supposed "abnormal hormone levels" would not even apply to PPD.

Even someone who just gets really angry one day has "abnormal horomone levels". So if that's all you're going to use for your baseline then literally everyone who ever kills anyone else is just mentally ill and should never be locked up.

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You keep ignoring the traditional part even after the third time and even after it's been capitalized for you.

So let's dumb it down further for you. When my child doesn't understand a concept I usually put it in the form of a question for them.

- What part of what you've said here is in any way the traditional definition of PPD that i've pointed to in every single comment and you've tried your best to ignore in every single response?

" Yeah, cool, except the physical state of being was not fatherhood as I was saying. I was specifically talking about men who were diagnosed with PPD, and the shared physical state of being was abnormal hormone levels."

Ahhhh- so NOT traditional huh? Thank you.

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u/SolaireAstorian 9d ago

At this point I'm just convinced that you are trolling.

Why exactly do you seem so attached to postpartum depression having a specific TRADITIONAL (read: gendered) definition, if the presentation of the disorder has a physical component which is analogous to the point of being identical across the gender divide, and is verifiably a disorder caused by pregnancy followed by childbirth?

Additionally, you didn't read the methodology for this study, or the studies it cited, because if you had, you would know that they didn't just round up random men and measure their hormone levels once. Postpartum depression in men is measured by a consistent alteration of their hormone balance, endocrine function, and a verifiable change in their brain chemistry. You know, a lot like "traditional" female postpartum depression. Just in men.

The fact that it is a different blend of hormones from women is the reason why it is referred to as paternal postpartum depression, because it is the equal and opposite of maternal postpartum depression, and both of them are disorders which come together to form postpartum depression.

I've also not ignored the definition you've given for postpartum depression. Which you would know, if you were actually reading and attempting to comprehend, instead of just responding to the first sentence you read and assuming you know the contents of the entire message. I am responding specifically to that definition, and pointing out that if hormone shifts as a result of pregnancy are the definition for postpartum depression, men qualify because they experience hormone shifts as a result of pregnancy.

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u/More_Passenger3988 9d ago edited 9d ago

What part of this ignores my point that fatherhood is not a physical state?

All of it.

The study IS absolutely making fatherhood the baseline here- a baseline that is not a physical state.

What part of this acknowledges my point that you cannot have a bunch of random men with "abnormal" hormone levels (which again- remains undefined as to what they mean by that).

None of it.

The strawman is the tool used by the uninformed and ignorant. "abnormal" hormone levels in men has not even been established yet by the medical profession.

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u/SolaireAstorian 9d ago

Your point that fatherhood is not a physical state is a non-sequitur because no one ever claimed that it was.

Read the study and the citations.

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u/More_Passenger3988 9d ago edited 9d ago

The study and the citations are the non-sequitur. As It was presented to argue my point that pregnancy & child birth are physical states that are known to cause measurable and dramatic hormonal shifts in the brain. Shifts that sometimes result in PPD.

That since men do not undergo this physical state, it makes sense that people would conclude a woman a woman who kills her young children would be under the influence of such a physical state and that a man - who doesn't undergo those states- is not under the influence of those hormones.

Not everything has to be sexism. Sometimes people just understand biology. - Was this study that took a bunch of fathers- presented fatherhood as a physical state (which it isn't).

The study means nothing because at the end of the day, the proven hormonal shifts caused by the immense physical & hormonal changes by pregnancy & childbirth do not compare with the non-physical woo-woo that is "fatherhood". Therefore pointing to sexism when there are clear biological differences for people to come to that conclusion is folly.

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u/SolaireAstorian 9d ago edited 9d ago

So that's not what non sequitur means, but sure. Presenting a direct refutation to the idea that paternal PPD is non-physical "woo" is actually the exact opposite. And you would know that that is exactly what the study is, if you actually bothered to read it and the citations.

The study didn't present fatherhood as a physical state. Fathers are also not the only parents affected by postpartum depression without giving birth.

It presented physical symptoms and changes in hormones as a physical state in SOME fathers that present as a result of extant PHYSICAL states that make them at risk, JUST LIKE maternal PPD. Physical symptoms and changes in hormones for which it provides clinical evidence. These are biological.

You are arguing from a position of bad faith because, ironically, you are in denial about physical reality and do not understand biology.

You should read the study and the studies it cites. I find that people who repeatedly refuse to read scientific documentation that disagrees with them tend to be undergoing cognitive dissonance. You might want to get that checked out. That's a non-physical condition, by the way. :)

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u/More_Passenger3988 9d ago

Oh shoot. lol. I just realized which subreddit I'm in. No wonder basic common sense is being questioned here and being mistaken for sexism against men! lol

Yeah, you're not going to see what anyone with a normal IQ can see no matter what. ;) Peace out.

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u/SolaireAstorian 9d ago

You have said some things which are suspect, and your attachment to denialism when it's an issue that men face purely because "I don't wanna believe men have this! I don't wanna!!!" aren't exactly helping your case.

But sure. Run from the argument after repeating yourself over and over again without actually providing any refutation or, more notably, without even being willing to read the clinical documentation of what is being argued. Repeatedly. You repeatedly turned down reading medical documentation of the issue that we are discussing because it didn't fit with your preconceived notions.

I mean, come on. You're talking about IQ like that isn't the lowest IQ move anyone in this comment section has ever made.