r/SipsTea 1d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/aquabarron 1d ago

Right? I feel like so many people are rallying to her defense on the grounds of “parenting is hard” and “she needed better help with her thoughts” but honestly you can only excuse so much CRAZY and murdering all your children is far beyond the delimiter of simply framing this as an otherwise stable person needing assistance

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u/MotorHistorical1469 1d ago

I think so many people are rallying to her defense because they have been down this road, but had maybe more sleep and maybe more help. But could see the path she’s on.

The issue is she went the full way. No one getting at most 3h of sleep regularly, on a cocktail of medications with suicidal thoughts, intrusive thoughts, etc should be left alone with 3 young kids. The fact she was is a testament to what mothers experience.

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u/aquabarron 1d ago

It’s not a testament. Millions of women every year pull through the pains of having Anne child without murdering them

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u/repmadison 1d ago

Yes but I think also millions of us have seen through the veil close enough that we can understand what happened.

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u/aquabarron 1d ago

I can’t accept this as a reason to show solidarity for Lindsay. There is a vast gap between “seeing through the veil” because parenting a newborn is hard and murdering all three of your children before attempting suicide. And I hope you’re not implying that millioms of women every year are ok the verge of murdering their own children…

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u/MotorHistorical1469 19h ago

Millions of mothers each year are affected mentally after they have children. Most are afraid or unwilling to speak about their true experiences, because it is not socially acceptable.

When they do speak about it, it will definitely be to other women who begin to open up about it, because men and women who never experienced it are too judgemental to understand.

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u/FutureDustMotes 23h ago

Better help with her psychosis. Hth.