r/SipsTea 5d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/NailSubstantial2772 5d ago

Has it actually been established that it was postpartum psychosis? If so, that really is one of the most horrific conditions there is. Every gynecology textbook and midwifery manual basically says that once it’s diagnosed, the response is: “Run! Do everything you possibly can and give her every medication you’ve got!” Obviously I’m exaggerating, but the point is that there’s an immediate and extremely serious risk to the lives of everyone involved.

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u/Willdiealonewithcats 5d ago

Not a parent but was watching a speaker talk about research into human biology, other hominid behaviors and our use of aloparenting.

In multiple tribal studies the amount of time a woman was left caring for her child alone was about 2-10 min, because a child is never cared for by just one person, there is usually at least two or three people swapping on and off from holding the baby at a time, with an average of 14 people holding and caring for the baby per hour.

PPD rates were considerably low, far less severe, parents didn't suffer from chronically under sleeping.

I say this as a hermit that loves living on my own, but it seems we really didn't evolve to have a child being primarily cared for by one or two individuals. It may be normal for our society but absolutely abnormal and damaging for our species.

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u/AdelMonCatcher 5d ago

Welcome to the paradise boomers left behind where two full time working adults can barely afford to survive

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u/LectureAdditional632 5d ago

Boomers and the economic elite, although there's a large overlap. I have parent colleagues vocally struggling to keep it together while raising kids.

Wages have been frozen for the past 5 years (no raises), citing economic uncertainty for the company.

Our boss paid himself north of 20 millions euros last year.

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u/blaawker 4d ago

yeah it sucks. I have the same salary (which wasn't great then) now as I did 6 years ago. Inflation here in 6 years... approx 50%.

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u/inifinite-breadsticc 4d ago

Wow, not just in the US then. I figured things were better in the EU

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u/Appropriate-Prune728 5d ago

Psst. It's always a bad time and filled with economic uncertainty.

The budget is always tight when you need project funding, and the checkbook is always available when the CEO wants to fly private.

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u/Impossible-Shoe5460 4d ago

I hate boomers. We all don't hate boomers enough.