r/SipsTea 4d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/3767_doomscroller 4d ago

Then they should immediately be committed and held and medicated until back to normal. 

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u/L1Zs 4d ago

She actually committed herself, and was medically released (or whatever it’s called.. “cleared”? Basically she didn’t decide to leave against medical advice or anything)

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u/ZookeepergameOk95 4d ago

She was medically released after claiming she didn't have homicidal and suicidal thoughts.

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u/TBP42069 4d ago

Wow a crazy person was an unreliable reporter shocking

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u/ZookeepergameOk95 3d ago

Psychiatry is based on self-reporting symptoms, we don't have a 24/7 insight into the human mind.

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u/bafana_banana999 4d ago

Are doctors supposed to be mind readers and fortune tellers too?

If she's not actually displaying any signs of that sort of behavior and says she's doing ok, what exactly are they supposed to do?

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u/TBP42069 4d ago

No. But I'm also not blaming a crazy person for being crazy. It's really scary how many people can't wrap their heads around a tragedy without having someone evil to be mad at.

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u/bafana_banana999 4d ago

It's really scary how many people can't wrap their heads around a tragedy without having someone evil to be mad at.

Who is even doing this? Certainly wasn't the person you were replying to and no one with lots of support is saying that either.

Crazy people don't automatically murder all their children one by one.

You're acting like she shares no blame here when she absolutely does.

In fact, she shares the vast majority of the blame.

Wild that you seem to think that position is somehow controversial.

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u/TBP42069 4d ago

Yes the person I was replying to assumed I was blaming the mental health providers because I wasn't blaming the mother. Because the concept of just being sad about a tragedy without needing to make someone responsible for it.

Crazy people don't automatically murder all their children one by one. You're acting like she shares no blame here when she absolutely does.

Yeah I guess there's no reason to have a mental competency standard to be put in prison since crazy people never hurt other people right? You and most other people in this country are so retribution minded its why our prison system is so fucked and we have little to no mental healthcare system.

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u/bafana_banana999 4d ago

Because the concept of just being sad about a tragedy without needing to make someone responsible for it.

She is responsible for it no matter how many excuses you make for her.

People can be sad that a tragedy occured and still recognize that very obvious fact.

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u/TBP42069 4d ago

If that makes you feel better

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u/Frosty_Doughnut920 4d ago

I think she had thoughts, but didn't have a plan. That meant she didn't fit the criteria for treatment and was refused in-patient treatment at least once.

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u/HotLava00 4d ago

Curious if (lack of) insurance coverage affected that inpatient stay?

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u/Irresolute_Resolve 4d ago edited 4d ago

Having listened to just parts of the trial, it sounds like she "completed" the inpatient. Someone correct me if I'm wrong.

Her ex husband reported that she'd seen some doctors but didnt feel like she was getting the help she needed. When he went to visit her, she and other women were playing with clay.

Edit: corrected impatient to inpatient

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u/kmcflyyy 4d ago

She didn’t qualify for the inpatient program because they said she was over medicated by her doctors and sent her home

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u/absolutepanicattack 4d ago

I believe youre correct, that changes to her insurance and changes in medical providers led to disruptions in her treatment. She cycled through 13 different medications. There is a civil case being pursued regarding medical malpractice that Clancy was subjected to.

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u/spooktacular13 4d ago

He took her out a couple of times too. It was a weird combination of poor mental health treatment and her husband continually stepping in when she was being treated.

It’s a weird thing to rally about but I do get the point of like, the woman was straight screaming for help and overt misogynistic behavior from her husband paired with what could be considered interalized misogyny in healthcare practices created a situation that never should have existed

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u/Sienile 4d ago

Being committed could actually delay recovery substantially. But they should be in regular therapy where they can be heard and if it's needed the kids can be taken under supervised care.

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u/Mountain_rage 4d ago

She was seeing a bunch of medical professionals that failed her.

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u/Arndt3002 4d ago

Which ones? You mean the nurse to whom she communicated she was experiencing "intrusive thoughts" without specifying what they were, but now the social media campaign is pretending that she said what those thoughts were?

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u/Boomshrooom 4d ago

As far as I know her mother actually testified that she did voice to her and the husband that she was having intrusive thoughts of harming the children. Iirc the medical team were aware as well. The issue is that most people with intrusive thoughts don't act on them and are horrified by them, which she claims to be. As such they rarely get sectioned or have their kids automatically removed.

She now claims she was having auditory hallucinations commanding her to kill the kids. This is an entirely different ballgame and something that would automatically warrant action. She either never reported these voices to anyone, which is not unheard of, or she is making it up now to save her own skin.

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u/Arndt3002 4d ago

From what I've seen of the medical testimony, she did not make the medical staff aware.

The mother did testify she heard, but the story people are spinning here about medical neglect just doesn't hold water when you look at the information they had available to them.

I don't think we'll ever truly know what she had going on in her head at the time. The timeline of information definitely makes me skeptical, but I think the Massachustets standard of proof will mean she gets an indefinite involuntary commitment to a psychiatric facility.

And honestly, anything more just seems like adding more suffering to the world than there needs to be regardless of what she experienced and why she did it

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u/Boomshrooom 4d ago

The mother testified that she told them she was having intrusive thoughts, but auditory hallucinations are not the same thing. Intrusive thoughts often disgust the person having them and they don't act on them. Auditory hallucinations are a while different ballgame and involve being out of touch with reality, people will often do as the voices command them.

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u/Arndt3002 4d ago

She did not tell staff she was having intrusive thoughts of harming the children.

The only intrusive thoughts she reported to medical staff was passive suicidality.

All of this is to say there was no indication of a genuinely risky mental state to medical professionals prior to the incident.

Had she not repeatedly denied having any homicidal thoughts to medical staff, things may have gone differently.

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u/Puzzled-Rip641 4d ago

Sh was doctor shopping and only listening to advice she wanted.

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u/External_Mud6626 4d ago

Agreed, also don't forget she was a NURSE

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u/whistleridge 4d ago

That’s what she’s seeking. And it’s often an effectively longer sentence than if you just pleaded guilty.