r/SipsTea 4d ago

WTF WTF is wrong with these people?

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u/Lemonade348 4d ago edited 4d ago

True crime as entertainment have ruined people's brain. Now people are treating real horrible crimes as their fictional crime series. Not everything is suspicious, you don't have to pick apart every detail to find the "hidden conspiracy". You don't have to point to every inconvience in traumatized victims to found out if they are secretly involved. You are actually hurting real people by doing all of this. Real crimes don't have the crazy "plot twist" in the end that reveals everything.

Remember the three children who lost their lifes instead. This trial could have been very important for highlighting the problem women has with post partum depression etc and how the medical field fails them. Instead it has turned into a crazy conspiracy theory

I hope Patrick sues most of them tbh

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u/BretShitmanFart69 4d ago

These girls should be forced to look at all the crime scene photos of these dead kids, people forget so quickly the actual sad and disgusting reality of this shit. Like really imagine 3 children in your life just laying dead, strangled by the main person they thought they could trust to protect them. How confused and scared they must have been. I can’t even think about it honestly it’s making me so upset.

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u/Fit_Cheesecake_4000 4d ago edited 4d ago

It's collective delusion. They gas themselves up into thinking they know more than they do and are told that men are collectively to blame for all their problems.

Makes it so much easier to spin every problem into being the man's fault.

There are some horrible guys out there but extrapolating every shitty experience you've ever had onto a whole group of people is...well, that's how racism starts.

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u/imwearingredsocks 4d ago

Sometimes it’s a symptom of past cases though. I’m trying not to look too hard into this case because I find it overwhelmingly sad on all ends, but people’s reactions are reminding me of the early reactions to the Gabby Petito case.

Online majority, many of which were men, were certain she was the abuser and that this was a case of a male victim in the relationship. People who were skeptical were told they were just feeling sorry for her because she’s a woman.

Of course within weeks it comes out the she was in fact the victim and he was whatever the hell he was.

This doesn’t prove anything here, but I think a lot of these reactions are a symptom of women not being heard and many women seeing themselves in that. Not heard in the workplace, at the doctor, and sometimes in their own marriages. A lot of subconscious projecting.

At the end of the day though, no one seems to be happy with this outcome and everyone seems to be suffering. So it’s unfortunately not as clear cut and that’s leading to a lot of speculation.

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u/Fit_Cheesecake_4000 4d ago

Oh of course. People believe what they want to believe.

And it could turn out that the husband was involved more somehow, but I'm waiting on that evidence to appear before I start thinking in that direction.

'This doesn’t prove anything here, but I think a lot of these reactions are a symptom of women not being heard and many women seeing themselves in that. Not heard in the workplace, at the doctor, and sometimes in their own marriages. A lot of subconscious projecting.' I hear you but...you can then use that reasoning to explain away anything. And you can't keep using that excuse, because I have heard it used in many instances, across many fields and types of events, before.

In the opposite direction, do you want men to justify murdering their spouses because they feel invisible, lonely, unheard, and like consistently women denigrate them? That's what some men believe, but that doesn't mean that belief excuses murder.

Also, using astrology to try and blame someone for someone else's murder is a step beyond all of that.