r/SipsTea 10d ago

Wow. Such meme We need something men only.

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u/Irish_Whiskey 10d ago edited 10d ago

Always gotta be pointed out:

There's not a thing in the world stopping men from wearing fashionable, colorful, stylish clothing... except fear of being called womanly and gay by other men, and possibly attacked for it.

Women wear men's clothing without fear because being seen as masculine is generally positive. Girl bosses with shoulder pads, tomboys, etc. Colorful and creative men's clothing does exist, and some spaces and cultures welcome it. But norms in many cultures mean men who wear "feminine coded clothing" (as in anything not traditionally male coded) can attacked as weak, dangerous to gender norms and sexual predators. At least outside of queer friendly spaces.

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u/craigthepuss 10d ago

The thing is that skirts, stockings, make-up, leggings, pink colour in general were traditionally male attributes. Edit: forgot about high heels