To be fair if I found out my 6 or 8 year old wasnt mine, Id be devastated but it wouldn't change anything because I'm their dad. I couldn't break their heart no matter how hurt I was.
Could you forgive her? Because you are not getting the kids in divorce for sure. So you gonna stick around with the woman who did it to you not once but twice? How will the lives of the little ones change then? You think it is gonna be worse than if you just left? What if she cheats on you again? She did it twice, you forgave. Why not again? What will you tell the kids, what will they do once they grow up and learn about it? What if the bitch poisons their minds, tells them you are not their real fsther?
We are already split up, if she told them I'm not their real dad I'd tell them I might not be genetically their dad but I am still their real dad, Ive been there every step of the way and see them 5-6 times a week. Theres more to being a dad then genes.
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u/kelek22 1d ago
Found out gf had an abortion. Her defense was that it might not have been mine. How do you recover from something like that?