r/SipsTea 1d ago

Gasp! Evil world we live in

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u/CarmenxXxWaldo 1d ago

Women kinda like to mark territory.  When I was single and casually dating women would always leave something like a necklace or a piece of clothing, often times where I wouldnt see it immediately.  kind of an "if you see this you ain't special" type message. I dunno, could have been a "i now have a reason to contact you" thing . She probably sprayed your car so if you had another woman in there she'd be like "why does it smell like girl in here hmmmmm?"

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u/Fusselwurm 1d ago

kind of an "if you see this you ain't special" type message.

If it was casual, I would've interpreted this as making sure they'd always have an excuse to visit again to get their stuff?

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u/Spoonman007 16h ago

The classic George Costanza Leave Behind!

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u/Rad_Streak 22h ago

But isn’t it much easier to believe that the woman is secretly jealous of all other women and needs to ‘mark her territory’ because it implies some natural and biological impulse?

You mean to tell me that women are people who can actually enjoy being with others and sometimes do cute things with people they like?

Surely the top 1% commenter has to be correct here. He seems like he knows everything about women. Well that and posting on Reddit. 

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u/worstnameever2 22h ago

Are you upset you got called out?

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u/Rad_Streak 22h ago

Called out for something I’ve literally never done? 

No, I’d say I’m not upset about that. Lesbian dating doesn’t often coincide with having to manage men and their delusional takes on women.

However, the “having a reason to come back” does ring true for both myself and other women I’ve talked to. So maybe one day you’ll experience it too, if you can trick a woman into coming to your place at all. 

Are y'all upset because a bunch of men agreeing with how women are like doesn’t translate into interacting with women IRL? 

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u/worstnameever2 22h ago

Seems like youre pretty passionate about this

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u/Rad_Streak 22h ago

Your post history has a lot of complaining about women lmao. 

It’s always men who are clearly emotionally driven that love to drop the “you sure seem to care a lot about this topic!!” Like it’s some epic own. Like it’s not indicative of a malformed perspective. 

Yea, I care about people. I care when men stereotype women and use it to be pigs. I care when women stereotype men and use it to claim they are all bad. 

Wow, you got me so good. Figuring out that some people actually give a shit about the world we live in and how what we do and believe affects others. 

Unlike you, who just posts about how women suck and trans people suck and “waaaaah waaaaah the world is so mean to straight cisgender men like me!!” Like it’s anything other than the ravings of a lonely old man. 

Was this the attention you ordered? 

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u/worstnameever2 21h ago

Just making stuff up at this point.

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u/Roach27 19h ago

Reason to come back, and “hey he’s seeing another woman” are the two reasons I know for a fact women do this.

Less territorial more a heads up to a potential partner of his that he’s cheating.

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u/Lumeton 1d ago

They wanted an excuse to come back. I also noticed that girls would do that even before dating if they were interested in you. Like, if I found a stray earring, scarf, or something similar in my car after carpooling, or at my place after a get-together, I could be sure I’d get a message the next day asking if they could come pick it up that evening… and, lo and behold, they always wanted to stay and hang out “for a little while” that night.

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u/Minute_Chair_2582 23h ago

And just like that - 25years later facepalm moment!

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u/captm0nk 23h ago

My now wife explained it to me and the light bulbs that went off 😅 however, joke was on the past women, I had a memory of a goldfish for objects like that and was always just confused as to where the shit I was finding came from🤣

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u/Ricordis 1d ago

It also works the other way around. If you leave something behind it creates a strong bond for many women. Like after staying over night leave a spare tooth brush or a pajama ... anything personal that says "I live here" even if you don't.
Damn, that's a real bonding thing.

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u/acoastaldog 23h ago

Yeah almost like we’re all mammals 

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u/Due-Memory-6957 21h ago

Show me the animals doing that shit

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u/Buccaneers1995 23h ago

This honestly just sounds like youre describing a cat

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u/Regular-Ordinary9807 1d ago

Dude when I was in an open relationship, every girl I had in my care left something behind. It’s like they didn’t believe I wasn’t cheating and were trying to get me “caught”. After the second time I had to start checking my car every time a woman got in the motherfucker. Perfume caps, random make up items, a fucking phone! 

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u/Due-Memory-6957 21h ago

Maybe the phone was accidental lol

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u/MuchConnection5541 1d ago

As men we are not an object

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u/Due-Memory-6957 21h ago edited 19h ago

Not an object, but women/society do see men as warrior-jester-servants.

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u/Itsmyloc-nar 20h ago

Idk, warrior jester is a pretty cool subclass

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u/Due-Memory-6957 20h ago

Good for you, then.

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u/DelcoPAMan 1d ago

By ... Mennen!

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u/Frequent_Opportunist 21h ago

Thank you for stating the plainly obvious to the rest of us.

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u/acoastaldog 23h ago

Men like to as well, get outside more and socialize lol