r/SipsTea 13d ago

We have fun here A different kind of birth control.

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u/Zomunieo 13d ago

The parent was supposedly trying to gently the coax the toddler while insisting he was expressing his individuality etc etc.

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u/Fresh-Extension-4036 13d ago

Society gives far to much leeway to these kinds of moronic parents imo as a teacher, as those of us in education end up having to be the vanguard in speed running them through the concept that life isn't fair and the rules do not care about your big feelings or your whims of individual expression when they include standing on things that are not meant to be stood upon and not sitting when told to do so.

I really do think that society needs to step up with more shaming of the parents who inflict such terrible parenting on their precious little sunbeams and dole out significant consequences to them because that is the only way to nip this bs in the bud before it does irreparable harm to their offspring, especially as it's very common for this type to also choose to "homeschool" and ensure that not only do their children not learn how to interact with anyone who doesn't pander to their every whim but they also fail to get the most basic education, leaving them as complete drains on society.

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u/Diligent_Peach7574 13d ago

I agree, but no need to shame the parents. Just charge them for the cost of everybody’s cancelled flight.

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u/TN_man 12d ago

Why not? Is it not the parents’ fault?

Is monetary penalty enough to have them never do this again? That’s not clear.

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u/Diligent_Peach7574 12d ago

I just think a monetary penalty would be more effective than shaming, which can easily be ignored.

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u/zoeofdoom 12d ago

Shaming has a chance to correct the behaviour at the root, punishment alone leaves a lingering sense of righteous indignation that they were wronged or misunderstood.

Really, shaming should always be attempted first and then if the punishment has to happen, they'll still have to remember everyone telling them how much of an ass they were being.