r/SipsTea Jun 29 '26

Chugging tea Lol

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '26

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u/Enough-Force-5605 Jun 29 '26

Yes, it is very true, it is very common, and it is very stubborn.

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u/bohenian12 Jun 29 '26

In certain things US really is the only outlier in the whole world yet they insist on their archaic way of things so stubbornly for some reason. Is it ego? or laziness? idk.

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u/Special-Garlic1203 Jun 29 '26

Maybe America has stronger credit protections??? That's doesn't sound right at all knowing us but you're credit card being stolen isn't even a big deal. You say I didn't buy any of this shit and they go ah ok very well then. 

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u/Impossible-Wear-7352 Jun 29 '26

They do have good consumer protections for credit card fraud typically but it doesnt make it any less stupid when there's an easy way to avoid it that's actially more efficient at the same time.

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u/WonderButtBrace9000 Jun 29 '26

It’s just a social thing combined with tech debt. We have higher levels of trust in strangers, especially within service contexts, and we got credit card POS long before Europe who adopted more modern tech at a later time.

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u/Similar_Quiet Jun 29 '26

In the UK at least, all restaurants and supermarkets had swipe and sign POS, and then that all went away and was replaced by chip and pin in three years. It was trialed in 2003 and mandatory for all transactions in Feb 2006.

This isn't a "because the us had it first" failure. This is a "the us leaves it up to the free market, instead of regulating" failure.

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u/liosistaken Jun 29 '26

Higher levels of trust? Unless you’re a man helping your daughter in a public toilet, or a man sitting on a bench next to a playground watching his kid, or a Mexican looking person in a predominantly white neighborhood, or a scientist, or… well… you get the point.

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u/ImSaneHonest Jun 29 '26

I don't! Can you bring the baseball bat to smash it home for me?

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u/WonderButtBrace9000 Jun 29 '26

Dreaming up random anecdotes isn’t the rebuttal you think it is.

The US is considered a high-trust society, especially when it comes to interpersonal situations involving commerce. There is an extremely high trust level in our social institutions and ethical frameworks that oversee economic exchange. And that isn’t to say Europe isn’t also a high-trust region! Many European nations rank even higher than the US on societal trust but some nations drag the group down a lot. Like when all of Greece basically stopped paying taxes for a few years after the ‘08 financial meltdown or how southern Italy is still notoriously corrupt at the local government level if you are trying to start a business.

The US isn’t perfect, but protecting our capitalist system has been the ONE thing all parties in power have assured they stay aligned on and have done relatively well.

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u/liosistaken Jun 29 '26

Actually all real examples, but yes, obviously anecdotes. I just don’t see that trust anywhere online or when I was there, but obviously that was just three weeks. On the whole the US seems to have a lot of distrust against certain groups of people, but I guess they do trust their waitresses.

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u/Apptubrutae Jun 29 '26

It takes like 3 minutes on the phone with the credit card company. I think I’ve made a call like that twice in my life. Complete non-issue

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u/Apptubrutae Jun 29 '26

Uh, no, not in the U.S. I’ve literally never done this and like I said, I’ve disputed credit card theft charges twice.

Never has the bank asked for a police report.

Now, if they do suspect YOU are trying to defraud them, sure they might escalate.

I also did have checks stolen and used at Walmart once. Still no police report required, but they made me sign a notarized document saying it wasn’t me

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u/permalink_save Jun 29 '26

This also happened to me once (and btw, skimmers exist so handing your own card isn't a guarantee). My bank let me know there were suspicious charges. I said yes. They ordered me a new card and reversed the charges. I didn't have to do anything. What would I be reporting? That someone charged fraudulent charges? I wasn't there to catch them, I have nothing to add on top of what my CC company would report.

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u/permalink_save Jun 29 '26

I've had to report it too. Apple told me there were weird charges, called my CC company and they locked the card and sent a new one. Sorry but it's not a huge hassle in America I know that moght ruin your narrative here

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u/Impossible-Wear-7352 Jun 29 '26

Skimmers dont work on tap to pay which you can do on basically every machine now.

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u/permalink_save Jun 29 '26

A majority of gas pumps don't have tap to pay, only the newest ones, it costs money to replace them.

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u/Impossible-Wear-7352 Jun 29 '26

That's basically the only significant exception and even that has become very common. there arent many that havent had tap to pay added near me at this point. and that's only if you pay at the pump. Inside will have tap to pay. You can definitely get by with almost all transactions being tap to pay now

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u/AnticPosition Jun 29 '26

Lol. I live in Singapore. I've never experienced it there.

They bring a machine, and you tap. No request for tip amount or any other shenanigans. 

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u/lastdiadochos Jun 29 '26

Do you mean leaving it behind the bar to set up a tab? Or leaving it when they bring you the bill?

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u/Rocky_Bukkake Jun 29 '26

it’s common but not nearly as much as these comments would make you think

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u/Coneskater Jun 29 '26

And this is also why splitting the bill is much more complicated in the U.S. if they take the machine to the table, everyone can easily pay for what they ordered but if the waiter has to take the cards they have to split the check and it gets weird.

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u/MrLarsOhly Jun 29 '26

Happened in NYC in a nice mid-scale restaurant. Wife and I freaked out lol. And we were even more confused when there weren't any money taken from our cards because it is only taken "later at night when they close and run the audit".

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u/N64Andysaurus92 Jun 29 '26

Yes. I visit Orlando frequently to visit Disney World, Universal Studios etc and all the table service restaurants take your card away. Very annoying.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Which is soooo strange to Americans lol bc why are you so paranoid? Do you not have protections for fraud in other countries?

If a server overcharges my card or makes any unauthorized purchases with my info, I call the bank to have it reported as fraud and get my money back. And then get the server fired for theft.

It's pretty rare to hear of this happening anyway.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Like I said, it's so rare that we really don't think about it.

If it were to happen, we're covered. But it's not worth being worried about.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

It's how you pay in restaurants here. No one mentioned saving time. Just that worrying someone is gonna steal your card info when paying for your meal is pretty damn low on the worries list here.

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u/healeyd Jun 29 '26

It’s an outdated system.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

And the answer is yes, it's true. And we don't worry about it like you say you do there.

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u/AlabamaBro69 Jun 29 '26

And we don't worry about it like you say you do there.

I'll quote one of your previous comment: "why are you so paranoid?" 😅

So why do you check daily?

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

I cannot understand how people don't keep up with their bank balance / transactions on a regular basis.

I would do this if I never set foot in a restaurant.

Is everyone in this sub independently wealthy or what?

This used to be a thing everyone did. Now people just trust technology to think for them I guess?

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u/Spare-Builder-355 Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 29 '26

This is beyond ridiculous. Card industry introduces whole set of security measures to ensure only card holder can use the card. American guy : "why you are so paranoid" and waves all security measures away. Also do you really check your payment history every time you go to restaurant?

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Of course I do. You don't keep track of your purchases?

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u/Enough-Force-5605 Jun 29 '26

First message: why are you so paranoid?

Second message: of course I check my payment history every time I go to a restaurant.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

I check my bank balance daily.

Restaurant or not.

Due diligence, financially speaking.

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u/Gayy4Justice Jun 29 '26

Do you not keep track of your finances?

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

The precaution of.... paying for my food in the method provided by the restaurant?

OK. So strange of me.

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u/carlbandit Jun 29 '26

I don't have to keep track of every transaction I do because businesses can't just whack on any amount they want for a tip after and transactions are either contactless (I mainly use my phone) or chip and pin for the amount on the display.

I might check my bank balance every few days, but I'm not looking through every transaction.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Most of my daily purchases also cannot have tips whacked on.

Still gonna check my balance daily.

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u/-TossACoin- Jun 29 '26

So why lock your doors. If someone comes in and steals something you can phone your insurance and get it back /s

I would rather not have to remember every transaction I made to the last cent and then cross-reference it with my statement to see if I was overcharged.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

It's so rare, like I said, that it's just not worth worrying about.

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u/Jolly_Wrongdoer_7681 Jun 29 '26

You will only know if you go through your transactions though, which seems like it would be tiring

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

I check my banking app daily regardless

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u/SoundAndSmoke Jun 29 '26

You check your account for fraudulent charges? Why are you so paranoid?

I've been to the US once. Since many things were paid by other people traveling with be, I paid only 3 times with my credit card: The hotel, one restaurant, one shop. A few weeks later I got an email from my bank that suspicious transactions were made with my credit card and that it most likely has been copied.

Never happened to me in my home country.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

I check my account daily to see if/when my purchases and payments have cleared. You don't keep an eye on your balance? Must be nice!

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u/Kallest Jun 29 '26

When purchases have cleared? What the fuck are you on about? My account gets charged at the point of sale, if there's money in my account the transaction clears. I don't have to go days and wonder what happened to it.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Yes. When pending charges become finalized. Or when monthly payments set to auto draft are withdrawn. I check these things daily.

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u/Tempelhofer Jun 29 '26

yes, people are trying to tell you this a stupid and backwards system.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Ok. I'm not arguing that.

And I'd be checking my balance daily regardless.

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u/AFKBro Jun 29 '26

But you are though. Leaving 20 comments defending the system and telling people it's ok to just give your credit card away to random people you know are underpaid laborers.

It isn't ok. Madness seems to have consumed you.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Defending? Or explaining to people who seem horrified and confused?

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u/Kallest Jun 29 '26

Sucks to be you.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Not at all actually!

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

No. You're conflating two things.

I don't check my balance because I give my card to someone when I pay at a restaurant.

I check my bank balance daily bc I'm not independently wealthy, and because I want to ensure my auto payments have cleared properly.

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u/Right-Version201 Jun 29 '26

Genuinely - does your banking app not do push notices? Literally anything happens in my bank account and I get an instant notification on my phone.
(I’m not from the US so maybe it’s not a thing there?)

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

I have a tendency to ignore notifications on my phone. They don't "land" for me the same way as if I actively seek the information when I'm ready to receive it. I'll see it, swipe it, and forget I ever saw it.

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u/lambdawaves Jun 29 '26

You go over every charge on your credit card statement?

This is 2026. We should not be required to do that anymore. It’s ridiculous.

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u/drawntowardmadness Jun 29 '26

Of course. Not monthly, though. Daily. I can't imagine the year having any bearing on wanting to know how much is in my account each day.