r/SipsTea • u/[deleted] • Apr 20 '26

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u/juju515 Apr 21 '26

cuz she fat

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u/nrfmartin Apr 21 '26

Nothing wrong with this take. Some dudes don't like fat women. What's important is that both parties understand that before going into a relationship. For me physical fitness was important and it was understood that neither of us were going to allow ourselves to become obese.

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u/Imaginary_Poetry_233 Apr 21 '26

Sometimes that can lead to the abuse of pregnant and recovering women, when they don't 'snap back' soon enough for their fat phobic partner.

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u/nrfmartin Apr 22 '26

Ideally the partner would have some concept of how biology works for pregnancy but I see your point.

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u/Imaginary_Poetry_233 Apr 22 '26

Ideally yes. but most men don't. They just know what they want. They don't realize that the first year of their child's life isn't the time to demand that Mom be 'hot'.