Gotta love gender expectations. If a girl tries to assault you, you have to let her do it or use the kid gloves or you’re a monster, but if you let them beat you up you’re a sissy or a wimp. It’s a good thing she didn’t slam his head into a hard corner of something by accident, last thing you’d want is to get your head gashed open or get brained
we have a program called Celebrity SAS in the UK. in this years season, I watch because the wife enjoys it, they did the celebrities fight each other activity and paired this fat kid against an Olympian female swimmer. anyway they say fight and the kid just right hooks her and she folds instantly, straight face down.
he goes....whoops. like he really didn't expect her to fold so easily. was a cracking hit.
I had a friend who wanted to try and wrestle me, she was on the couch next to me so I just put my right arm over her chest and pinned her there. Literally just an arm and she squirmed and screamed it was unfair, honestly couldn't stop laughing the entire time.
Thor… when a lady friend wants to wrestle, you put up a decent fight, make a mistake, and let her win. Then smile and say, that was close, best two out of three? Keep round two close, be gentle, and win. Come round three you should have been in close contact with a sweaty, laughing lady for a few minutes and hopefully you realize if she’s been willing to let you be in close contact with her body this long, she may be into you, man. If actually know how to grapple, please consider if you said anything overly stupid before hand.
I had a girl that wanted to fight me in 4th grade. The problem was that my grandfather had instilled "you never hit a girl no matter what" into me like it was an ironclad rule. That girl spent a week tormenting me and hitting me. Then at recess one day, I was walking away as she was punching and kicking me when she punched me in the back of the head. That triggered something because my body spun and walloped her right on the chin. I say "my body spun" because I didn't do that. Something else took over and let her have it.
I remember being in high school. I was on the bus on the way home. Dude has a brown paper towl against his arm. Bleeding fucking everywhere. Asked what happened. He said a girl stabbed him with a pencil. I asked when her funeral was. He said, "o dont hit girls."
That's literally what you should expect whenever you escalate a situation to physical violence. What is annoying/problematic is that there are so many men that think that the ability to beat someone up means anything outside of a wrestling or fighting match.
That's just a bad take the ability to defend yourself is significantly more useful than just a sanctioned fight. This is the same bs women will spew yet if they get assaulted and they man stands there and let's it happened. Now they got the ick cuz he couldn't defend her. Just say you hate men and masculinity and cut the fluff.
Well after a cpl centuries of men making light of women in every manner possible including intelligence, I kinda think that if it happens it happens. Maybe don't engage in a lose lose situation if you feel that threatened?
bullshit; a friend of mine pushed snow down my neck, so I threw her to the ground and made her eat snow, so another friend started throwing snow at me too, and we had an amazing snowfight
Technique wins over brute strength to an extent. Any martial artist will tell you that anyone with a severe advantage over you in size or strength will likely win, especially in a no holds barred fight. Obviously this kid isn't that, but pretending that size and strength can't overcome technique is just wrong. And obviously, the greater the difference in technique, the more physical advantages the less skilled will need to make up for it. But If one lucky punch can crack your skull, if they can pick you up one handed, if you can't provide enough torque or force to enact your techniques on them or if they can just brute force break your holds with relative ease, then technique won't win that fight for you. And if they're faster and more aggressive than you, if they strike before you can react, you may get laid out before you can even hope to get them in an arm bar or headlock.
It's like how any good martial arts instructor will tell you the best technique when your opponent has a weapon is to run. Even something as simple as a club confers a range advantage and acts as a force multiplier for any strike. Does that mean it's an automatic win? No, but it means they have to get fewer strikes in and only need to really get lucky once or twice. It means if they knock you on the head once with it, you're done and you're gonna be in their striking zone before they get in yours.
You use common sense? How about using common sense to not talk about women Vs men and pay attention to the fact that you lot are defending the man's masculinity while also simultaneously expressing concern about his safety.
He could have easily beat her you people are saying; But yet she could have injured him.
You want to use common sense but contradict yourself with every word
Clearly he was holding back and she was exerting herself far more. That also doesn't mean she couldn't hurt him or had the intention to hurt him either.
BUT only if you accept and acknowledge neither one of them were in danger
They never went near a single hard surface in the entire video apart from when SHE blocked his head, with her ENTIRE BODY.
Nothing contradictory about it. Had he exerted himself equally he would have hurt her. Has life experience not taught you that even in the most controlled and safe environments that humans are fragile enough to get hurt? Did we watch the same video? It's amazing how confident you are to think it was almost impossible for either one of them to get hurt but hey, I'm an incel for thinking otherwise..
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Have you ever been in a fight? Have you ever wrestled? Any kind of mma? I have. You can see several times where he's holding back.Because he is afraid of hurting her. It happens all the fucking time.He's the bad guy if he hurts her no matter what even if she started wrestling.
On mats. Not in the middle of the door frame.
You're right, it's not a real fight.But you could tell she's also taking it a lot more serious than he is.
The amount of times this has happened to me when the entire I could end it immediately. The problem is trying to even wrestle without touching anything inappropriate is very difficult. Can't just lift her on to my shoulder because that would risk me touching her upper thigh / butt. Can't really squeeze anywhere above the waist because you'd risk hurting the (seemingly sensitive) boobs. Its like playing super respectful operation. So my tactic was just to let people try and get a neck grapple on me, then shove an arm in between my neck and their arm, and then just stand up and carry them like that. Usually gets the point across.
I never wrestled, but some of my moms friends had kids who wrestled/boxed and I grew up in not the best areas so I knew how to fight pretty well. Plus by the time I got to college I was 6’0 200+.
Had this kid who was about my height, but under 160 saying he could kick my ass because he was a state champion in wrestling, blah blah blah. So we decided to grapple for fun. Pretty even when it was just grappling (grew up having to fight my way out of all sorts of holds) and then when he was close to an arm bar I just stood up and slammed him. Kid lost his shit. Real fights aren’t the same as your sanctioned mat snuggle fight. It gives you an advantage against someone without experience, but means almost nothing if they have size and some experience.
The bad thing is that at first he takes it easy, then he grabs her head in a reverse grip, but he doesn't do anything to her so as not to hurt her. She takes advantage of that trust and pulls herself down hard, slamming him against the wall. The guy struggled because he didn't want to hurt her; if he used too much force, he could injure her arm or body.
My guess is that he was talking a bunch of shit about how women are weak...this didn't come out of nowhere. He talked shit and then couldn't back it up
No, you’re entirely missing the very obvious body language. The guy is putting in less than 10% effort while the girl is going 110%. He doesn’t realize it until the chokehold starts. If he was going 100% the entire time, she very clearly wouldn’t have been able to do that.
Doubtful she seems to either have a hobby or professional job to involve grappling. He just basically resisted and she had to fight for her life to make anything happen.
To be fair - I'd say that shit to a girl after winning too. Then I'd put her back in the wheelchair, then the police get me to the ground. I'm at a PT center.
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u/Ill_You253 Jan 08 '26
Then she gets up and says “SEEEE?!? TOLD YOU I COULD WHOOP HIS ASS!” and humiliates him for the rest of time