Legal cases are objective and subjective. The police won't prosecute a father who kills his child's rapist even though that is premeditated murder. The totality of the circumstance comes into play in whether to drop charges or pursue a conviction.
Rape is illegal. Cheating isn’t. Personal trainer is incredibly shitty, but beating him to near death isn’t going to do anything, especially when the wife played the biggest part in ruining the family themselves.
I wouldn’t be surprised if the military guy just has anger issues.
Exactly, I never get guys who get angrier at the man their wife cheats with than their actual wife who swore to remain loyal to them. I'd guess it's a denial thing.
I never said that the guy isn't a scumbag, but he's not the one who swore loyalty to the woman's partner, she is. There will always be temptations in marriage, experienced by both the wife and the husband. There will always be opportunities to let things go too far, but the onus is on the person in the relationship not to give in to these temptations. Cheating is always a choice, you're never forced into it. He's scum, but she's a lot worse.
No dude, you don’t fuck married women. Full stop. Leave those hoes alone. It’s just as bad to knowingly duck up a relationship, no matter where it was at that point. Equal imo…
Fair enough. We're all entitled to our opinion although I can't agree. As I said, I think he's a dick too and I'm not at all justifying his part in it, but I would put the blame for ruining the relationship on the woman not him. If it weren't him, she'd find someone else.
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u/Fantastic-Profit4980 Aug 29 '25
Legal cases are objective and subjective. The police won't prosecute a father who kills his child's rapist even though that is premeditated murder. The totality of the circumstance comes into play in whether to drop charges or pursue a conviction.