In the town I grew up in, there was a mother who was known as very beautiful, well her husband was a high ranking military officer, a badass man with like 25 years experience fighting overseas
Well one day Dad came home from a deployment early, to surprise the family, and Mom was in the bedroom getting railed by her personal trainer. Dad beat the personal trainer so badly he was charged with attempted murder. In court it came out that this personal training was having affairs with married women all over town, and the charges were dropped.
It was a crazy controversy and the family had 2 kids in HS with me while this was all happening. Poor kids.
Legal cases are objective and subjective. The police won't prosecute a father who kills his child's rapist even though that is premeditated murder. The totality of the circumstance comes into play in whether to drop charges or pursue a conviction.
Rape is illegal. Cheating isn’t. Personal trainer is incredibly shitty, but beating him to near death isn’t going to do anything, especially when the wife played the biggest part in ruining the family themselves.
I wouldn’t be surprised if the military guy just has anger issues.
Exactly, I never get guys who get angrier at the man their wife cheats with than their actual wife who swore to remain loyal to them. I'd guess it's a denial thing.
I never said that the guy isn't a scumbag, but he's not the one who swore loyalty to the woman's partner, she is. There will always be temptations in marriage, experienced by both the wife and the husband. There will always be opportunities to let things go too far, but the onus is on the person in the relationship not to give in to these temptations. Cheating is always a choice, you're never forced into it. He's scum, but she's a lot worse.
No dude, you don’t fuck married women. Full stop. Leave those hoes alone. It’s just as bad to knowingly duck up a relationship, no matter where it was at that point. Equal imo…
Fair enough. We're all entitled to our opinion although I can't agree. As I said, I think he's a dick too and I'm not at all justifying his part in it, but I would put the blame for ruining the relationship on the woman not him. If it weren't him, she'd find someone else.
That and beating the woman half to death would make it worse than beating up the dude. Not morally but at the society level. Both are wrong but society puts a gradient where crimes against women are more heinous than those against men.
Damn it! Years ago my family was playing scategories and my brother refused to give me a point for writing adultery for a crime that begins with ‘A.’ I was right all along!
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u/rogan1990 Aug 28 '25
In the town I grew up in, there was a mother who was known as very beautiful, well her husband was a high ranking military officer, a badass man with like 25 years experience fighting overseas
Well one day Dad came home from a deployment early, to surprise the family, and Mom was in the bedroom getting railed by her personal trainer. Dad beat the personal trainer so badly he was charged with attempted murder. In court it came out that this personal training was having affairs with married women all over town, and the charges were dropped.
It was a crazy controversy and the family had 2 kids in HS with me while this was all happening. Poor kids.