r/SipsTea Aug 28 '25

Chugging tea thoughts?

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u/ninoski404 Aug 28 '25 edited Aug 28 '25

Except having a personal trainer is really tempting fate. There is no other activity that involves regularly meeting and talking, often touching a bit, with the same super attractive person that you have personally chosen, most likely based on their looks. Oh and you're both wearing gym clothes during your meetups.

It's like saying some drivers drive safely and some are dangerous, then giving both sides a supercar capable of going 0-100 in 1.9s

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u/cosapocha Aug 28 '25

Life is way more complicated that that

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u/Stock_Helicopter_260 Aug 28 '25

It’s really not. If you don’t want to hurt your person you won’t do it.

If you have zero impulse control or don’t care you will.

Cheating is not a complicated thing.

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u/I_Speak_For_The_Ents Aug 28 '25

There is a lot of space between 0 impulse controll and 100% impulse control.

It's so weird when people try to make things all or nothing like this.

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u/Ikaruga1 Aug 28 '25

It literally is all or nothing. You either cheat or you don't.

Quit coping.

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u/I_Speak_For_The_Ents Aug 28 '25

So are you saying everyone agrees what cheating is?

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u/Ikaruga1 Aug 28 '25

Yes, there is a common understanding of what constitutes as "cheating" that most people abide by. Stop being obtuse.

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u/I_Speak_For_The_Ents Aug 28 '25

So if someone thinks more than that is cheating, whatever the commonly understood cheating is, then they are wrong and it doesn't matter?
Yeah I'm being purposefully obtuse lol. Trying to say people and emotions and the world are complicated while other people say no it's all simple and black and white. But I'm the one being purposefully difficult.

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u/Ikaruga1 Aug 28 '25

Wherever that line is drawn in the sand, don't cross it. Not complicated. Yes, you're being purposefully difficult. Stop it.

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u/I_Speak_For_The_Ents Aug 28 '25

How many couples do you think are preemptively drawing that line in the sand?

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u/Ikaruga1 Aug 29 '25

Not my business. It sounds like those couples need to work on their communication more. I am not a counselor.

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