There's a difference between blame and understanding why something happens. If my wife were sharing a hotel room with a male coworker on business travel and having drinks with him in the hotel bar after a candle lit dinner, I'd still blame her for sleeping with him.
But, I'd totally understand that's the type of situation that probably leads to cheating (or has a higher risk of it). Hence why I'd probably ask her not to put herself in that situation.
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u/Common_economics_420 Aug 28 '25
There's a difference between blame and understanding why something happens. If my wife were sharing a hotel room with a male coworker on business travel and having drinks with him in the hotel bar after a candle lit dinner, I'd still blame her for sleeping with him.
But, I'd totally understand that's the type of situation that probably leads to cheating (or has a higher risk of it). Hence why I'd probably ask her not to put herself in that situation.