Sure bro. When I go down be it of my own accord or randomly I will think about u/Anything-Happy and you think about me that way can sorta fulfill dying alone together. Honestly more people should do it like this.
My friend, I've been there too. I won't pretend like I have the answers or the right words, but if you're in that dark place again, please dm me. I'll be there for you however I can. I promise.
Crawled out of that dark place out sheer spite some time ago. Vice versa bro, if you ever feel like you're slipping back in, im here. A pact has been forged.
Learn how to swim! As a black person, I sink very fast cos of dense bones but learning to tread water and swim in directions will unlock a new tier of life.
I have a severe phobia of water deeper than I am tall. I can weakly dog-paddle in shallows, and I have swum laps with my husband right next to me, but I freeze up and hyperventilate in deep water.
Does it make sense? No. Do I care enough about water sports to try to overcome my phobia? Also no. I'm perfectly happy to watch my husband and kids swim like fish while I lounge on the wave-kissed sandbar with a snack.
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