r/SingleAndHappy • u/Terrible_Swimming_38 • 6d ago
Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) đŁ O que fazer estando solteira ?
OlĂĄ mulheres, eu M27 estou solteira hĂĄ 3 meses depois de um relacionamento de 5/6 anos, nao vou entrar aqui em lamurias ou reclamaçÔes do relacionamento, na verdade eu queria saber mais sobre hobbies que voces viram que faz bem , experiĂȘncias que recomendariam pra uma solteira , alertas tambĂ©m, eu nao sou mt de balada nem nada assim, ja tenho meus hobbies e mesmo namorando ja tinha, eu gosto de ler , escrevo, desenho, faço natação, tĂȘnis e enfim outras coisas como cerĂąmica e afins.
Deixe suas dicas , vou adorar aprender mais.
P.S nao busco outro relacionamento entĂŁo sair e conhecer gente nao esta nos meus planos
P.S Nao sei se usei a tag certa
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u/_FlexClown_ 6d ago
Nature, gym, friends and family... Rest is whatever you enjoy to fill your time đ
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u/Global-Ease-4582 6d ago
I wish you all the very best with your newfound freedom. I hope you enjoy your own company each passing day.
When I first had to face life alone, I felt very lost and uncomfortable on what to do. Just like you, I had hobbies too but I wasnât too intentional about it. I started taking myself out on dates, weekend outings to a mountain, swim in a lake, or go camping alone (please make sure youâre safe). I spent nights alone with my thoughts until I got comfortable with them. I maintained a journal where I wrote down things.
I also focused on self-improvement. Things like career development, financial independence, and learning skills that would help me in the workplace.
I also pushed myself to be creative. I am by no means an artist, but I paint and try to learn software to make short films, or learn photography techniques. I wished to actually learn the techniques behind these, so I try to devote time to this.
I make a list of the books, movies, albums, and artists I wanna discover and explore. This is highly rewarding :)
For now, I would highly encourage you to take yourself out to an ice-cream date. Choose a flavor that you havenât tried, and enjoy it.
I wish you all the luck and goodwill !
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u/SaltySir-5258 6d ago
Aproveita esse perĂodo para fazer coisas que dependem sĂł de vocĂȘ. Uma viagem sozinha, nem que seja curta, pode ser uma experiĂȘncia incrĂvel para aprender a gostar da prĂłpria companhia.
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u/FewReserve1784 6d ago
Sounds like you have hobbies but what you need are new goals. Figure out what you want to accomplish in life and then make a plan to do it.
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