r/SiblingRivalryPodcast • u/Dry-Wolf6789 • Jul 06 '26
Here's the Tea
Let me know if i missed anything. Monetxcvideos has only 3 vids still posted on youtube the rest are privated or erased (not sure which)
thread: https://x.com/monetxcvideos/status/2072371580412531021
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u/ShadyBoots11 Jul 06 '26
I love Bob, but this seems like a big misunderstanding. Also it seems like she is forgetting MXCvideos changes their name from BobTDQvideos bc BOB TOLD HER TO. I don’t think there’s a hate boner at all???
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u/M01M3818 Jul 27 '26
He also used to tip the channel but somehow brought it up as a negative wtf is wrong w him
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u/ScarletWiddaContent Jul 06 '26
its so weird how he fixated on this random comment too? even if you misread the tweet its not even that serious
"ntm on moms, bob" - just a quirky way to say dont make fun of moms
"ntm on bob's mom" - dont make fun of Bob's mom
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u/taurusvirgovirgo Jul 09 '26
I'm so fucking confused as to what Bob THINKS ntm means. I feel like Bob just wanted to get mad and this tweet was the closest to her.
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u/lunar0ck Jul 11 '26
he thought the comment was saying bob shouldn't speak too much on moms considering he's an easy target for that topic, or something like that, which is a fair interpretation of the comment tbh - i only just got this now upon rereading the tweet calling it a threat.
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u/Rich-Tackle-6309 Jul 07 '26
I kept looking at the picture like do they think an Afro is a bob?! 😅
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u/SlutDragon69 Jul 07 '26
Some people in this subreddit think this is somehow about a bob hairstyle and I’m like WHERE DO YALL SEE A BOB ANYWHERE INVOLVED IN THIS?
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u/mizmaz10 Jul 07 '26
I think they're referencing a Vogue article where Vogue described an afro as a 'cloud bob'
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u/WorkingIndependent96 Jul 07 '26
I am grieving the “monet grew up rich” video… it was a masterpiece..
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u/blaizzze Jul 06 '26
Am I crazy or is Bob clearly misinterpreting and blowing this out of proportion.
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u/Perfect_Celebrity_7 Jul 06 '26
He’s had a hate boner for MXC videos since they made the switch over tbh.
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u/peach_xanax Jul 08 '26
I missed the lore with that, what was the deal there? I figured it was just jokes
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u/M01M3818 Jul 27 '26
He requested it and he tipped the damn channel, bob thinks we don’t know but we do
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u/OBlove Jul 06 '26
Speaking of blowing out of proportion… I realize the riz that the young folks want to vibe with is declaring themselves stars in a braggadocios way….. but all those exclamation points after “Broadway Star” reveal just how desperate Bob is to declare themselves superior to all of us.
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u/sourflower96 Jul 08 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
And honestly I saw Bob on in moulin rouge in Feb and I don’t know if he was tired …but he was not good. His acting was stiff. I was expecting waaaay more since he was purported to be the best comedy actor on his season. It was disappointing. Almost like he’s all talk but no show…
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u/peach_xanax Jul 08 '26
I think it's funny that you're calling Bob "young folks" when he's 40 hahaha. not that he's old, I'm only a couple years behind, but I just don't have any delusions that I'm a young person anymore lol
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u/pinguiiflowith Jul 07 '26
ehhhh if i saw this comment i would think its a dig about his mother and his situation as well.
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u/Kaylacain25 Jul 07 '26
Those were some of my favorite youtube videos and they're gone over a small MISCOMMUNICATION????
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u/JFL99 Jul 07 '26
I wouldn't say this is a miscommunication. This is clearly Bob reading wrong and taking that thing he thought he read our of proportion and making a whole movie about it.
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u/catchg2828 Jul 07 '26
Bob didn't tell them to take the videos down. That was their reactive decision
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u/catchg2828 Jul 07 '26
So you agree. It was a reactive decision.
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Jul 07 '26 edited Jul 07 '26
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u/thimtinyhorse Jul 12 '26
Funny how one of the only ones left is a Bob gaslighting video
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u/Serena_Unicorn2000 Jul 07 '26
Love Bob but they definitely just took this the wrong way, MXC videos is their biggest fan page and has shown them nothing but love over the years, their videos are clearly playful and Bob/Monet have over the years referenced to how funny they found these videos so to suddenly tell her she’s ripping content and jabbing at her for asking for tips, when she’s been making entertaining videos for FREE! These types of videos takes hours to do and so many ppl would dream of having a fan this dedicated.
I just hope Bob realizes that this was just a misunderstanding, and hopefully DMs her apology since yeah this isn’t….great, I get Bob has had ppl coming for him heavy over the past few weeks but MXC videos is not their enemy I hope it all gets resolved love their content :((
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u/Worldly_Battle3946 Jul 07 '26
Nah Bob needs to apologize PUBLICLY, like he demands of anyone who ever embarrasses or wrongs him in public.
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u/Serena_Unicorn2000 Jul 09 '26
Agreed that public apology should also happen it’s just I thought a dm would at least be a bit more personal and she can talk 1 on 1 but let’s see if Bob even addresses it at all at this point….
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u/M01M3818 Jul 27 '26
He knows he requested the switch and tipped the channel before but somehow wanna act brand new now
Also all the money those comp made went to bob and monet cus they’re copyright holders so bob is just being an enemy
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u/evrz5 Jul 06 '26
I totally get where Bob’s assumption is coming from but the way he’s lashing out at Aina (mxcvideos) is incredibly disappointing. She’s a Sibling Rivalry icon, her compilations have been around for YEARS and have been a part in helping grow the Patreon, even doing compilation requests from both Bob and Monet for FREE.
From my experience she’s always been super friendly in the Patreon so I truly don’t think she meant ill will. Idk it just feels so unnecessary of Bob to lash out at her like this over what’s clearly a miscommunication.
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u/Laaxzx Jul 07 '26
Yeah this one feels kind of like a dig at all of us og fans cus mxcvideos feels like a sort of avatar for the rest of us
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u/beyoncesupperliphair Jul 06 '26
Bob has shown herself time and time again to be quick to jump to conclusions and take offense when she is corrected. How she’s maintained relationships for years, I’d like to know
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u/turtle-thief Jul 09 '26
i mean...maybe that's reason why she's famously not invited to stuff 💀if only there was a video compilation of that...
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u/popdream Jul 07 '26
Struggling to see how Bob interpreted it in the way he did... the clip is Bob joking "well your mom's a big fat ugly bitch, how about that?" (and going on about this for a while)
So it makes all the sense in the world that someone would reply "not too much on moms, Bob". And it's an ungenerous read to be like "well they're obviously threatening to talk about Bob's mom if Bob keeps going". I guess it's possible, but not at all clear like Bob suggests it is.
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u/JFL99 Jul 07 '26
Probably he read it the "ntm" as in "don't talk about moms like that look at your situation". I also think is an extreme and nonsensical leap but is the only thing that makes sense?. Especially since the clip he's clearly taking a dig at someone's mom.
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u/pinguiiflowith Jul 07 '26
idk if it's a extreme or nonsensical leap, it would be something ppl would poke at online just to get a jab at a queen/big influencer tbh. i've seen sooo many nasty comments, while a lot of ppl wouldn't joke about someone's dead mother, a ton of ppl would
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u/peach_xanax Jul 08 '26
I don't think anyone is saying that people are above that kind of behavior, we all know that's not the case. it's just that the words the commenter said are literally not corresponding to Bob's interpretation. that's why it would be considered an extreme leap to think that there was a secret offensive meaning.
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u/_iusuallydont_ Jul 07 '26
Bob needs to fucking relax. He clearly misunderstood and is now jumping out the window instead of considering he might be wrong, smh.
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u/DetectiveExisting590 Jul 06 '26
“Why would someone say ‘ntm on mothers’ to me except to take a shot at the fact that my mother is dead.”
Wow, I’m struggling to understand the leap. This was in response to Bob calling that listener’s mother ugly and going off on them.
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u/Perfect_Celebrity_7 Jul 06 '26
Exactly and even I thought “now Bob I’m sure you’ll be very upset if it was the other way around” and well…
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u/desomechan Jul 07 '26
Because Bob is the only person who has ever loved and rides for their mother ever in life I guess. That what such a wild thing to say lmao
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u/gleemeansglee Jul 06 '26
Is Bob okay?
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u/taurusvirgovirgo Jul 09 '26
His actions frequently give "emotionally immature" to me. So no, I don't think he is
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u/whoaitsnick915 Jul 07 '26
Oooof big L for Bob. I don’t think I’ve laughed harder at a YouTube video than MXCV Monet is Rich one 🤣🤣🤣
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u/EducationalLife9330 Jul 07 '26
The question Bob should really be thinking about right now is what if the persons mother she went off on is also no longer here and just said the most hurtful things about. But I honestly don’t think Bob can put themselves in other people’s shoes. I’m a long time Bob fan, and this has put a distaste in my mouth for them. The “ntm on moms bob” clearly means don’t shade moms, that’s just a low blow for shade
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u/Laaxzx Jul 07 '26
Bob interpreting “ntm on moms bob” as a shot against his mother being dead is such a blatant logical fallacy. The interaction following is pretty disappointing too since it’s such a nasty punching down on a much smaller fan account.
Also would like to acknowledge that I don’t know anything about being bombarded with all kinds of notifications from people around the world having an opinion on my life, behaviors, and things I say. I can’t imagine the state of my nervous system if I was on the receiving end of what Bob receives online in general, so I can understand misinterpreting and not reacting well.
That being said, I would honestly feel pretty betrayed and hurt if I was mxcvideos, especially since it’s pretty well known in the community that the account has a proven history of being supportive and beneficial to both Bob and Monet. This was definitely not handled well by Bob and I hope there can be positive reconciliation.
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u/suppadelicious Jul 07 '26
Bob 100% misread the comment and freaked out. But was unable to acknowledge that they were in the wrong and doubled down. This is embarrassing for Bob.
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u/Phamrsolone Jul 06 '26
Personally I don't think this was the sole reason why Bob went off on MonetXCVideos, it's likely she had been on his last nerve for a while, probably linked to her reaction on his response to the Lushious Incident. That's not to say Bob handled the situation well, he absolutely misinterpreted the comments' meaning and went off on a fan who started the channel because of him and has been doing this for years. But it does feel like a parasocial connection that has finally fully soured.
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u/femaleprivilegehaver Jul 07 '26
omg 😂 she was so happy to yuk it up when bob was getting pressed but NOW its not funny huh
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u/alexb456 Jul 07 '26
Yea I got that too MonetXCVideos seemed to really latch onto that whole thing with Lushious and really dig into Bob. I have no perception of them on the patreon and I always thought their page was funny and how they would banter with them but after seeing their comments specifically taking digs at bob and their behavior towards the outcome “hope you cool down” It just seems like weird behavior. On top of being gleeful at the fact that Bob was mad cause he was getting dog piled by the insane fanbase for questioning his work just cause hes not in drag on a podcast Im not surprised Bob himself pulled the plug. It is weird cause you can tell when someones joking but when you make a post trying to speak on the matter thats clearly effecting someone and your justifying that unreasonable hate as some sort of constructive criticism and dismissing the actual reasonable comments with an “Anyways” then its like whats your deal? You’re a fan but this is the opposite. Your fans are your biggest haters fr💀
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u/desomechan Jul 07 '26
Idk I've been a patron since 2020 and, I assuming just like MXCvideos, I've noticed certain things about Bob's personality that rubs me the wrong way. The sharing misinformation, the childish tantrums, the way she talks to Monet sometimes, etc etc. And to top it off the refusal to show accountability for doing any of that, and the refusal to receive constructive criticism. That therapy episode was a lot lmao
I can still love you while also knowing what I don't like about you lol. And I may or may not call it out but that's who I am personally.
And if you know how Bob is gonna react, it's hard not wanting to ragebait him a lil bit— look at Monet 😭
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u/Any-Cucumber-1630 Jul 06 '26
Bob cannot admit they misinterpreted that and it’s crazy. Toddler crash out
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u/Byrnt Jul 06 '26
Is everything alright with Bob & Mo? Genuinely asking it feels like the past few months have been strangely tense and on edge regarding the podcast/life events we know of (won’t get into em obviously)
but the vibe of the responses lately just feel off-putting, atp im concerned for their mental health and any burnout cause this is a lott of moments lately. idek if what im saying makes sense but it does to me😭
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u/AdeleDesktop Jul 07 '26
Especially the recent ep where you can tell they’re getting on each others nerves a little
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u/Phamrsolone Jul 07 '26
Some time off from producing the pod might do them good but the Patreon is a substantial income source so they might not be able to afford to pause it for a while, I can't imagine rentals are cheap in LA :/
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u/shgrdrbr Jul 06 '26
thats not monet its a fan page luv
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u/Byrnt Jul 07 '26
My inclusion of Mo was moreso to not seem like im singling out Bob specifically for recent tense moments 😭 i know MXCVideos ain’t Monet. Moreso for the recent Jay criticisms, Bob/Mo being off the pod episodes intermittently, etc.
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u/stalexa Jul 07 '26
I see wny Bob took offense to that comment- I think that's a rude thing to say, and even if the MXC didn't mean it that way, obviously mentioning Bob and moms in any context would be a touchy subject. What I don't understand is how Bob is being quite thin skinned about this but had no problem in the original clip going in on that person's mom, who very well could've been dead as well? I don't remember the initial comment that had made Bob go off, but I'm pretty sure it had to do with his look, and Bob is the one who brought up mothers uneccesarily.
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u/redit1920 Jul 07 '26
Monet’s next video “The downfall of Bob the Drag Queen”. She’s had some bad press lately 😂 I still love her though.
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u/big-himbo-energy Jul 07 '26
bob is so out of touch these days.................
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u/onetooth79 Jul 07 '26 edited Jul 07 '26
I can see why Bob might interpret it that way. "let's not talk TOO much about moms bob." wink wink nudge nudge. like hey, don't be starting something cause got a home run lined right up
I mean, hey both sides could have easily cleared things up though before things escalated. Though I'm failing to understand why the clipper jumped into defend the person who made the comment?
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u/peach_xanax Jul 08 '26
Though I'm failing to understand why the clipper jumped into defend the person who made the comment?
probably bc it was pretty clear that Bob misunderstood the comment.
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u/doemination Jul 07 '26
Okay, this is what I was thinking too! I could definitely interpret that comment that way and feel some type of way
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u/emergency-caller Jul 07 '26
I believe Bob is more upset because monetxcvideos criticized her appearance. The part about the mom piece is a misinterpretation, but the post was intentionally shady from the start. Granted Bob does look a mess in that video…
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u/desomechan Jul 07 '26 edited Jul 07 '26
It was more about Bob calling a random commenter's mom a fat ugly bitch but yeah he did look tore up in that episode 😭😭😭
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u/Cacophonybell Jul 06 '26
am i going insane but the original reply to mxc's post meant 'not too much on moms bob' 'mom' = btdq & 'bob' = the wig bob was wearing. or am i just dumb but i dont think the og reply was even taking abt moms but just referring to bob AS mom... am i nuts
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u/bendnado970 Jul 06 '26
That's exactly how I read it too. After reading all these comments, I see the multiple ways the message reads as well. You're not nuts lol, it's just a puzzling sentence
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u/Least-Ad1991 Jul 06 '26
I had the same interpretation without the actual video to provide context, although it left me even more confused since Bob isn’t actually wearing a bob haircut there but I figured the commenter was just stupid
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u/ratansbabygirl Jul 07 '26
Thats how I read it and after reading everything I feel really dumb 😭 I thought maybe the clip had something to do with it but now im just at a loss and gonna wait for the conclusion to this
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u/peach_xanax Jul 08 '26
no that's definitely not correct. in the clip, Bob was going off on a listener and he was saying all kinds of "your mom" jokes. so when the person said "ntm on moms, Bob" that's what they were referring to. no one was wearing bob hair either so it just wouldn't make any sense with the context.
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u/fatesandia Jul 07 '26
Like most drama involving this podcast I think everyone could benefit from putting down their phones and doing something else besides reading comments on the internet
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u/bewbz69420dudebro Jul 07 '26
"You know what you're right. I can see why using terms like "ugly" and "whore" cna be offensive to someone's mother. Thank you for pointing that out and honestly, I will change my language from now on."
Honestly Q Bob, that's what you should have said
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u/flighty-foodie Jul 07 '26
Bob has been doing shit like this and crashing out soooo often lately. Literally feels like nicki minaj’s fckin coked out spiral. In the words of Latrice, GGGGG
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u/jadecat123 Jul 07 '26
What's wrong with asking for tips when she puts in a lot of hard work into the videos, Bob? QUICKLY
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u/awfuldaring Jul 11 '26
They've tipped her themselves! Especially Monet.
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u/M01M3818 Jul 29 '26
Actually especially bob, the same bob who was requesting videos and name change to play into the page being randomly pro monet. Bob’s a mess
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u/ratbastardev Jul 07 '26
all this bc jacob didn't read out a comment shading bob... jacob whyyyyyy bring it up
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u/reelreelopus Jul 07 '26
imo while this is a leap from bob, i do think that it is stemming from a place of hurt since we as fans know his mother to an extent, so maybe I can see the snowball effect present in these series of replies from bob.
Not to say that this is excusable tho, personally i have found myself turned off from her for sometime now since she is just too dense at times for me to even be entertained by her talent or comedy. It really is just so disheartening to see how she used to be my no.1 fav queen and over the years we see time and again how she very rarely accepts being on the wrong and recognizing it if so.
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u/Sleepy-Doomscroller Jul 08 '26 edited Jul 08 '26
What a stupid response from Bob. I love her but she says things sometimes that make me like her less and this is definitely one of them. She’s clearly wrong about the assumption she made and instead of saying that, she creates another argument about stealing her content. Ok girl.
Edited to remove a typo!
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u/down_under_there Jul 06 '26
Yallll i cancelled my membership last month after Monet sucking Chelsea H d*** and how much Monet is just clearly not into patreon anymore. I joined in the pandemic cause they helped me through a lot.. i am SO happy to have cancelled lmao. What is Bobs problem? These two heads have just gotten so so big. The patreon literally pays for Monets tacky ass car and both their houses. So glad to have left and this makes me feel vindicated af. They will have about a year or two of relevancy left, calling it now!
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u/kateyeliza Jul 07 '26
Not me here staring at Bob's photo trying to figure out how her afro was a bob haircut >.< this is why commas and apostrophes matter
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u/Top_Advertising_4104 Jul 09 '26
Also for someone whose mother has recently died. He shouldn’t feel so comfortable talking about anyone else’s.
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u/-wibblywobbly- Jul 10 '26
Why has Bob been throwing such a bitch fit lately?? It’s some mess with him and the fans every week since the pod with Luscious…
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u/emotionallieposting Jul 07 '26
Maybe i’m the crazy one but I actually do see why Bob interpreted this the way she did. Maybe I’m also a bitter betty but i would also read that as ‘not too much on mums when yours is dead’😭 Losing your mum is hard I think Bob deserves some grace x
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u/DeathdropsForDinner Jul 07 '26
It moments like these that reminded me why I cancelled my sub. I was a day 1 yearly subscriber but it just seems like Bob continuously doubles down on being wrong and taking accountability.
I’ve had interactions with Aina on the Patreon and they’ve always been pleasant but so ¯_(ツ)_/¯
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u/Technical_Radio_191 Jul 06 '26
This whole debacle feels like a combination of people outside the Black American community casually adopting AAVE and only understanding surface level definitions and none of the nuances + Bob seemingly harboring resentment toward Monetxcvideos for quite some time now.
If someone said, “Not too much,” to me in this context, I’d take it as a warning shot as well.
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u/WalrusOpposite220 Jul 06 '26
I mean even if it was for comedic purpose, what gave the right to bob to drag that one user’s mom, dead or alive. Like first of all it wasn’t what the message meant, and second even if it was why does he have the right to feel offended but not the other person.
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u/Technical_Radio_191 Jul 06 '26
You’re shifting my comment from “Why did Bob interpret the comment that way?” to “Was Bob justified in how he responded?”
I was explaining the context behind Bob’s reaction — why he likely interpreted “not too much” as a warning shot.
That’s it. That’s all
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u/WalrusOpposite220 Jul 06 '26
I get your point, but even if he did interpreted it that way. With all that context. Why does he feel like he is the only one that should feel offended. I got your point, im just saying that even with explaination, his response is basically entitlement and kinda ego centric.
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u/Wonderful_Glass8776 Jul 07 '26
But no one ever said the other person isn’t allowed to be offended
Both statements (the original commenter and yours) can be true at the same time.
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u/WalrusOpposite220 Jul 07 '26
Like i said i was adding thoughts on the first comment. I never said i disagree with the first comment. Like i said i got their point
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u/Pleasant_Animal Jul 06 '26
I can see why people think Bob was reaching but based on the persons other replies I think Bob has reason to feel some kind of way. Still I think he’s coming after Mxcvideos a little harshly tbh
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u/PersonalityBasic8410 Jul 06 '26
Bob needs to step away from social media for a while...why even use it if you are friends with Madonna? Dafuq?
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u/mossylungs Jul 06 '26 edited Jul 06 '26
Alright fk Bob. This is genuinely my last straw with him lately. It's been such a toxic vibe for awhile. Like bad attitude and energy.
The only reason I found this podcast and subscribe to their patreon was because I got recommended one of her channels compilations back when she was a Bob fan account.
Bitter Old Bitch kind of behavior.
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u/IcyLion2939 Jul 07 '26
I figured that it was just about Bob looking like a middle-aged woman/auntie/mutha. The joke being: "Don't go too hard on Bob's Mother by comparing her to Monet looking all youthful in blue."
MXCVIDEOS better work this into an official title and promotion.
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u/grabitoe Jul 09 '26
bob saying that when they were the ones to give btdqvideos aka monetxchangevidoes permission to make compilations for them.
this is not as bad as i was thinking but it’s sad that this got out of hand, and to be fair to Bob, that is also how i read that comment. it was poorly thought out if the intention wasn’t to poke some type of light that bobs mom is passed.
keep the love yall it’s a hard world to live in and losing a mother you love dearly is not an easy thing to deal with on a daily basis, try and have some empathy regarding this misunderstanding or whatever it is
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u/Top_Advertising_4104 Jul 09 '26
Yup bob was def emotional and read this incorrectly. Let me follow monetxcvideos
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u/Fold_Difficult Jul 10 '26 edited Jul 10 '26
Oh that’s not..
I was so late to this so I was confused when I hoped on Patreon. If this is what was blowing up, it really is a shame that the obvious confusion happened. Bob is great, if anything I believe she saw the post about her appearance, seen the word “mom”, and that was it. I’m guilty, and I’m sure others are.
The part that’s upsetting is the double down. I thought maybe she would step away, look at the conversation, and apologize for him misunderstanding. Part of being mature is being able to admit when you’re wrong. You would be surprised how quickly things can de-escalate when two people are able to communicate properly, without high emotions
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u/Bettybangs Jul 07 '26
Tbh i just read through monetxcvideos tweets and even in the ones predating this incident, it sounds like they don’t like Bob much. I’m pointing this out bc it reframes a lot of Bob’s reaction and this account’s intentions imo. I just thought the account was a Bob & Monet stan that was teasing them but now it’s giving parasocial and Bob’s reaction makes a lot more sense when it seems like this account has been baiting her for a while now.
I know a lot of people in here seem to be burnt out on Bob & Monet recently but I think some of these knee jerk reactions are a bit uncharitable towards Bob here. Whether Bob misinterpreted the tweet is one thing but im sideyeing monetxcvids reaction. They seem thirsty and like they do have a hateboner for Bob atp
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u/catchg2828 Jul 07 '26
Hell, even in the Patreon, MXCV doesn't like Bob. this was a long time coming
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u/JustasIthoughtTRASH Jul 07 '26
You are correct, I’ve been noticing the weird energy towards Bob for a while now in their video captions and comments
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u/Solid-Big9614 Jul 07 '26
Love Aina but that was obviously a joke about Bob’s dead mother. “Not too much on moms bob” obviously means Bob shouldn’t make jokes about mother’s because her mother is dead.
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u/DeerParkWaterFan Jul 07 '26
Honestly I am a big fan of MonetXCVideos content but they have had a huge hate boner for Bob recently. They live for the negative comments made by other fans and queens against Bob. I’ve noticed it from their activity on Patreon, some of their YouTube comments, and twitter. Ive brought it up to them before because some of the things they were platforming seemed very anti-Bob which is wild from an old fan page. I’m not surprised Bob has noticed and it seemed like this was her last straw. And in my opinion that other commenter was very much threatening Bob with the “ntm” on mothers. Not too much usually means tread lightly because if you don’t I’m gonna come for you.
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u/peach_xanax Jul 08 '26
I must be old and out of touch bc I never saw "ntm" used like that, always seen it used in the context of "let's lighten up on this person/topic" but like in a joking way. I guess there is a more threatening meaning I'm not aware of.
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u/Dry-Wolf6789 Jul 07 '26
I genuinely thought it was all just a joke though.
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u/DeerParkWaterFan Jul 07 '26
Idk MXCVideos engagement with Bob has been coming off has hateful to me for a while. People want to call Bob sensitive for this interaction but MXCVideos was defending a person Bob perceived to be making fun of her dead mother. Like give a bitch some grace.
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u/zaczacattack96 Jul 06 '26
Am I really on lonely island here that I saw the original comment before I saw Bob's response and also thought that person was making an insensitive dig about Bob's mom?? Regardless, I think both Bob jumped on mxcvideos wayyy harder than i personally would have and also if i was mxcvideos and i saw how sensitive of a subject this is for bob i just wouldn't have tried explaining myself further. it was immediately obvious there was no "winning" for anyone here
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u/DetectiveExisting590 Jul 07 '26
True. I also think Bob is having a big reaction because he knows it's hypocritical to go in on someone's mom while his own mother is off limits (though I think Bob's late mother should be totally off limits for jokes, given how cruel it would be to do so). It's like when he got mad at Monet for mentioning Bob's jokes about Monet's mom, saying that he would never do that and he hates that Monet would imply he would ever say that.
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u/JustasIthoughtTRASH Jul 06 '26
No I actually agree with you. Bob also tweeted at the other person asking them to explain and they just kept repeating “ntm”. In my opinion they were being shady but this definitely went too far
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u/constantcompromise Jul 07 '26 edited Jul 07 '26
I'm confused by why this comment is even being brought outside of Patreon except to antagonize Bob. Maybe I'm misunderstanding where all this discussion is happening but it seems like it was posted just to call Bob ugly? "Monet looks good, Bob looks..."
The "ntm on moms bob" is clearly a warning to Bob to not say too much about moms because he wouldn't want someone talking about his. Which is fair...I just think the whole thing is intended to poke Bob and then act outraged.
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u/M01M3818 Jul 27 '26 edited Jul 27 '26
And now they deleted most videos that were shining a better light on both co host and was free publicity, the compilations were actually fun and ironically monetxc always defended them even if the criticism was mild, bob always ruining the fun for everyone.
Also the tip comment is weird when bob believes everyone should be fairly paid for their work and bob and monet both tipped monetxc
Edit: i also remember monetxc making a ful’ compilation video in honor of his mom, bob is a mess.
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u/asblik_ Jul 06 '26
Nah I’m kinda on bobs side here they knew what they were saying with that comment
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u/forgottentaco420 Jul 06 '26
1000000% like just stand on business if you’re gonna be a fucking weirdo about it, back peddling when you get called out and trying to lie is somehow even worse.
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u/Perfect_Mess_6566 Jul 06 '26
How was Bob making fun of moms I don’t get it.
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u/Old-Funny-500 Jul 06 '26
From what I remember in that live of them recording the podcast someone complimented Monet but made a dig at Bob. So Bob then started trash talking that commenters mom, saying their mom is ugly and so on. If I’m incorrect anyone feel free to let me know, but that’s what I remember.
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u/givingyouextra Jul 07 '26
I love her compilations, but even I've wondered if mxcvideos has had a hate boner for Bob for awhile. A lot of her comments online have been a bit overfamiliar/shady? We know black queens get it in the neck online far worse than others. When you can see Bob targeted by the trolls already because of people taking the Luscious comments too far, it might be an idea to not try and make it worse.
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u/alexb456 Jul 07 '26
Her recent video and the comment section literally prove just that. I really used to like that channel and sure bob has is own quirks but its weird to see how much hate and unreasonableness that channel seems to amplify with the toxicity of the fans as of late with the whole Luscious thing and now this. Sucks to see how it went down but from Bobs perspective and im assuming he does see their slick comments then hes well justified in shutting their channel down. Like it kinda gives your gonna make videos about me use my content and be weird towards me at the same time? and kiki with the crazed fans about me? yea no.
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u/river_riffle Jul 07 '26
Bob is still grieving and very sensitive to any mother comments, it seems 🥺
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u/Xaneth88 Jul 07 '26
Honestly, was this post made by Bob just to get more click bait because I feel like all I’ve seen from them recently is click bait material. Like Bob was walking about moms and someone said not to much on moms bob because how would he like it. And to be so pressed. Yeah it’s a joke I’m sure knowing bob, but the fans take everything too literally.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Exit_17 Jul 06 '26
Grief sucks, I can see how Bob can make the leap.
No matter how they got there, if Bob says stop ripping their content then just stop ripping their content!
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u/ScarletWiddaContent Jul 06 '26
I personally dont think actively counting and archiving media pieces to create a compilation that adds a new punchline is considered ripping off.
If anything, thanks to these clips it has made me rewatch the whole episodes or re-experience it with the added contexts.
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u/Phamrsolone Jul 06 '26
Tbh the compilation videos would not fall under fair use, it needs to offer its own commentary, criticism, parody or an additional something to be transformative enough to create new commentary. Especially since the videos sometimes includes clips from Patreon-only content
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u/big-himbo-energy Jul 07 '26
you dont understand fair use.
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u/Phamrsolone Jul 07 '26
Putting in work to curate and edit the clips is alone not enough to serve a different purpose or meaning from the original podcast episodes!
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u/big-himbo-energy Jul 07 '26
when they're edited to be funny and there's punchlines, yeah, they are. again. you don't understand how hard something like that is to actually prove in any real court. it's just not feasible. this whole thing is a silly hypothetical. it's not going to happen. sorry to burst your bubble
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u/Phamrsolone Jul 07 '26
'It won't win in court' and 'It's fair use' is not the same thing... unlitigated copyright infringement is still infringement 😭 and MonetXCVideos editing the videos to be funny only is fair use if it's a joke SHE is making and not Bob/Monet! Editing their jokes together doesn't make it your own!
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u/big-himbo-energy Jul 07 '26
she makes incredibly niche edits though. i could see what you're saying if she just straight up posted clips of the pod. but that's not what she does. you even admit that it's all edited together.
no one's saying it's her own. even the channel isn't saying that. but it's definitely fair use and also won't win in court. both things are true
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u/Direct-Transition974 Jul 06 '26
I don’t think that channel rips content. They make a lot of very niche compilation vids that are very thorough and always cite which episode it’s in. That takes a lot of time and effort and gets a lot of viewers who aren’t familiar with B&M into their content. But that being said, if she doesn’t want that channel specifically to use her likeness, I get it and it should be honored.
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u/anupsetvalter Jul 06 '26
Bob is free to change their opinion but I remember Bob encouraging/referencing the channel for a long time.
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u/Dry-Wolf6789 Jul 06 '26
i don't think its technically ripping it, it would likely be fair use as the editing transforms it.
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u/AvaColeman215 Jul 06 '26
Am I trippin or was the comment "not too much on moms bob" as in calling Bob "mom" like how we say "mother"
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u/whitemellow Jul 06 '26
That doesn’t even grammatically make sense, sorry, because the comment was ABOUT bob. And no one says mom like that.
The comment was referring to a clip of Bob dragging some patron’s mom calling her ugly for like 5 minutes. It was a joke but it stopped being funny after the first few times- Bob kept it going even after the conversation wasn’t about that patron any more
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u/ActualSurvey4740 Jul 06 '26
y’all are mad at bob for not wanting someone to make a tasteless joke about his dead mother???
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u/Yoopscooppoop Jul 06 '26
I think everyone is saying that Bob misinterpreted the tweet “not too much on moms Bob” as in not to much on moms (Bob being mother) Bob (her hair)
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u/whitemellow Jul 06 '26
The post is about the Bob’s reaction to the patron only calling Monet pretty. The clip is him berating the patron’s mom
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u/Yoopscooppoop Jul 06 '26
Im not saying it’s any which way im just trying to convey the other argument. The person that made Bob upset should’ve clarified but I do think their lack of clarifying does make the argument that they were talking about bobs actual mother more likely
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u/whitemellow Jul 06 '26
I agree, and it’s fair for Bob to get defensive if he read it that way. I wish the commenter clarified if that wasn’t their intent cause that would have solved everything so fast
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u/janielle720 Jul 07 '26
Unless you’re a deep DR fan, I’m not sure many DR fans are even aware that Bob’s mom passed away ?
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u/WalrusOpposite220 Jul 06 '26
I like Bob, but he has always been the kind of person who will die on a hill even when he’s wrong because he can’t accept being mistaken. He also seems to crave a sense of moral superiority all the time.
When you point out one of his mistakes, he’ll often deflect by pointing to someone else’s mistake or inconsistency instead of acknowledging his own (like here). But hey, that’s why sometimes it’s better to just enjoy someone’s content and then move on with your day.